I think its disgusting if he has to pay anything towards her care. If what DOA says is true, then she doesn’t deserve it. There has gotta be a law where a person can’t be forced into doing it, DOA should look it up on the net.
Depends if i knew the person, If it was a friend then I would tell their partner if they wouldn’t confess. If it was somebody I didn’t really speak to then I probably wouldn’t say anything.