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@a certain sadness wrote:
Its all so final, i thought i would of been going down to the graveyard and chatting at the grave, but theres no one there.
I imagined they were just away for a bit, a holiday or something, but reality strikes when its all back to normal and the relatives and friends have left.
Bittersweet longings
Memories cherished
Hurts forgotten
Regrets? Maybe
But at its heart
A treasure no one else can shareSadness?
There has to be
The loss is real and always will be
Yours to keep
And part of everyday
But every day has changedHealing?
No wound, No sickness
A presence felt
An absence known
Living with the gap
Treasure in the soul@mrs_teapot wrote:
One Direction first band ever to go straight to number one in the USA charts with their new album….. how rich must that Simon Cowell guy be???
Love him or hate him he certainly has the midas touch.
That depends on how much money went into getting them there. Getting into the charts is so expensive that a lot of acts make very little money from sales, but use them as a ‘shop window’ for tours, marketing, sponsorship etc.
@panda12 wrote:
It’s hard dealing with them in my “every day” job.
As a Mortuary Technician, I find it hard.
Panda, I’m still taking your post at face value, so I hope you have a good week and that you never lose that humanity.
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Her love must have been so intense its as if she would not allow the healing process to take place. Clinging to the pain, afraid to let it go as though that would signal the end of her love for that person, the end… so final.
But a broken Heart does heal.. she just didnt allow it to. So sad :(
But what would healing look like?
Maybe it’s better to be convinced that you actually met and knew the one person that will forever light up your sky than to allow the wound of their passing to close, scar and eventually fade to ‘normal’.
Even without that, I think sometimes people are too quick to pair up, convinced that they’d be happier with someone (almost anyone it seems) when they don’t know how to be happy with themselves, therefore they don’t actually know what they would have to offer their ‘other’ should that person materialise.
@pennyj wrote:
yes what becomes of the broken hearted :D
And how many other hearts are broken as a result? :( :( :(
@panda12 wrote:
It’s hard dealing with them in my “every day” job.
As a Mortuary Technician, I find it hard.
An essential job, but yeah, sometimes the facade that professionals maintain can make one think they don’t have human feelings.
Do you you get offered any counselling or support to help you process your thoughts and emotions?
@mrs_teapot wrote:
@tinks wrote:
I have spoke to quite a few elderly women that had lost their loved ones in WWII…….. who never married……….I wonder if there are women like them today that have lost their loved ones in the Falklands or the Gulf War that are exactly the same and wont marry?
Sad thought Tinks :(
Sad perhaps but wow! To have known that love . . . . .
@kent f OBE wrote:
Do you know what love is at 16?
I’m torn between asking “Why not?” and “Can you ever?”
I can understand what Dame Cicely meant, and in one way totally agree with her while simultaneously wondering if it’s too far-fetched and if this many-splendoured thing is just wishful thinking.
I guess it depends what do you mean by love?
I love my kids, my family and my friends but it’s not like being ‘in love’ even though it’s passionate and lasting. Some people can separate love from even the most passionate sex, some cannot separate love even from bad sex. One word is probably too limiting.
What is the ‘love’ that you think it might be difficult for a 16 year old to know Kenty?
@duwpin wrote:
@anc wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Going to see them in April…. cant wait :D
I’m jealous – they are brill! :D
ive never even heard of them :shock:
They’ve heard of you . . . . .
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
@sugarnspice wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Going to see them in April…. cant wait :D
Are they the Thin wannabees ?
Sorry.I shouldn’t come into a thread at the end without reading the rest eh :)
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Who knows, thin might well have passed for one of that lot in his early manhood . . . .
