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@best man wrote:
maybe sue we arent all blessed with your superior intelligence
No ‘maybe’ about it . . . . . :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
@rubyred wrote:
And if the above sounds Nasty.. you have not saw the attempt at Shyte that i have to take… a woman old enough to be MY mother too !!
One of the Great Life Lessons from JC is that age guarantees nothing, good or ill, I mean despite all of us being older than 11, some of the rows that erupt in the room and on the boards – sheesh!
@jadey wrote:
MESSAGE FROM BORNFREE SHES GOING TO HAVE TO POSTPONE THE MEET UNTIL A LATER DATE DUE TO PERSONAL REASONS IF U WANT TO KNOW MORE THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE MY NUMBER RING ME AND ILL TELL U WOT I CAN BUT IF U CANNOT CANCEL THE HOTEL AND WISH TO GO AHEAD WITH THE MEET THEN BY ALL MEANS DO SO BORN REALLY WANTED TO BE THERE BUT DUE TO DIFFICULT CIRCUMSTANCES SHE CANNOT ATTEND SHES SORRY FOR ANY INCOVENIENCE CAUSED THANX AGAIN :)
Hope you get through it OK Born. Many of us end up on chat in the first place because some personal difficulty changes the way we live. I wish you nothing but luck.
@tinks wrote:
The more I read about all of this the more I become a little bit sadder……….as far as I am aware I dont have alcohol or drug related issues in my family………….I know it can be a hard world out there and I like feeling ‘safe’……so I’ll stay in my bubble if that’s ok.
The only pain you know is the pain you know. To seek out someone else’s pain would be perverse, and not in a fun way.
Seeing a family suffer and deciding that the source of their suffering is a bad thing can’t be a bad thing. Enjoy your ‘bubble’ if that’s what you must call your life, but don’t ever let anyone make you feel guilty for that. Enjoy the good things about your life, including your personal and emotional security.
After all, even people who have experienced drug and drink problems don’t all agree on the solution, and they don’t all treat their addicted loved one in the same way, so I’m not sure that actually having that experience would make you any the wiser, if it did then surely there would be some answers.
RIP Amy and every solace to those who really loved you.
@tatler wrote:
R.I.P Amy X
In all of this the one thing that comes to my mind ,
you never expect to out live your kids ……. no matter the circumstances they die in .
That is so true. I’m not a fan, so her death is only (or at least) as tragic as any young person’s.
As to whether the incident that caused her death was because of drugs, it’s true we don’t know the official verdict, but I have little doubt the drugs she used are at least associated with the decline of her mind and body and won’t have helped her ability to withstand whatever did actually make the moment fatal.
Like any other cultural/personal trait, respecting the individual while discouraging the negative aspects is difficult: there are elements of choice, but the coercive effects of peer pressure are difficult to resist once you’re an established part of any group
@Wordsworth50 wrote:
After the reception, playing on a Bosendorfer Emperor Grand piano, the first I’ve ever seen!
I guess fay’s the only person that would mean much to in JC. Does she read the boards?
@~rockchick~ wrote:
Thanks very much for the welcome Mrs Teapot..
thats made me feel all warm inside :D
And a warm welcome from me Rockchick, enjoy!
After the reception, playing on a Bosendorfer Emperor Grand piano, the first I’ve ever seen!
A bit late but watching my boy graduate from Uni last week.
@mrs_teapot wrote:
OK… have to eat humble pie now…. I was looking for the welcome thread to say welcome to Rock Chic… couldn’t find it…. but guess what I found the thread I thought had been deleted… sorry Martin… I take it all back
You’re probably not the first, and probably won’t be the last.
To err is human . . . . . . .
