[ubermik]

Well not so much “stories” really as I havent chosen to ignore any lies yet so its not really had an impact, but some observations

The majority of deceit I’ve seen online in the last 10 years on and around dating and friendship sites hasnt been someone doing it TO someone, its actually more common for people to be doing it to themselves

They see what they want to see, totally ignore anything they dont want to see, hear what they want, dont hear or totally twist and rewrite what is said to them so they can have or do what they want at that moment in time

When the truth becomes unnavoidable they then croon on about being decieved or “played” is the buzz word often used and then milk anyone who will oblige for sympathy till they feel like “milking” the next person who will “deceive” them in a totally different way

To be fair it doesnt seem to be conscious most of the time, and both halves of a dysfunctional couple seem to be doing it to themselves equally so i think its more to do with the amount of emotionally broken and dysfunctional people who are turning to online encounters as a means to regaining their confidence and sanity before inflicting themselves on the real world thats the cause

But when someone has repeated “deciets” that are pretty much identical, either they are totally retarded or arent really being “decieved” by anyone except themselves

If someone assumes something that hasnt been said theyre decieving themselves

If someone can see various meanings to something but silently chooses the one they want to be the case then ditto

If someone has things that are important to them but avoids discussing them, or “assumes” their values will be the same as a partners they are deceiving themselves

Etc etc ad infinitum

As adults theres no excuse for not communicating and theres certainly no excuse for repeating the same “mistakes” over and over, well, not acceptable ones at least lol

[ubermik]

LOL. pure class

Cheers for that

:)

[ubermik]

Well to be fair having worked in an office enviroment for large chunks of my working life I think theres as much observation and acurate satirical depiction in there as wit anyway, especially where council offices are concerned

[ubermik]

“Blah blah”

Happy to oblige

:lol:

[ubermik]

Blah blah

Isnt it about time you changed the record?

Lets just accept the fact you dont like me or my style of posting, or what I have to say

Lets also accept I dont give a toss either way what you think

Lets also assume that no amount of your menopausal girly sniping, whinging and whining is going to either make me give a toss or alter any of the above

Lets then agree that you constantly taking rather childish shots is not only tedious but also pointless as well as looking like the substitute for you actually having anything valid to say other than your menstrual diatribes

And then if you accept all that you can just shelve your apparent issues, move on and start acting a bit more mature eh?

Its a thought

Oh yeah, FYI, I do ALWAYS know what I’m talking about, just because you claim not to doesnt really bear any relevance outside of your own mind as much as you might like to think it sets the bar,,,,,,it doesnt

[ubermik]

I’d be asleep, so how the hell would I know

Was that a subtle proposition to find out?

Although how that is relevant to either the thread or the post it was in response to isnt really clear

Unless we’re to assume its the rather common antic of attacking the poster when you dont actually have anything valid to say as way to appear to be posting SOME kind of response despite it being totally worthless in any meaningful way

You seem to do that a lot fastcars I’ve noticed, you totally avoid responding to the topic being discussed but instead either nit pick the posting or whine about the poster

Not making assumptions here, but that IS usually the rhetoric of someone who cant actually disagree with whats been said or just has nothing worthwhile to say, otherwise they would say something with a point rather than airing petty personal issues or they would just stay silent, but I wouldn’t assume thats the case here as I’m sure you have your own issues causing you to post that way

But as they say, if it walks like a duck,,,,,,

[ubermik]

Infact the only hypocrisy here is the people who dont make as much noise about all the other children from this country who go missing or get killed in every single case but ONLY do so when the media encourages them to do so, ONLY do it when the media makes it publicly and socially trendy to go on and on and on and on inanely incessantly about it

To me this is consistently just another girl whos gone missing, another girl whos parents might be involved, yet another case of crappy parenting, just another news story no worse or better than the countless hundreds in my lifetime that have been the same, another person I dont know, have never met and have no vested interest or emotional reaction to or for so thats consistency

Reacting differently to ones where the media evokes a pavlovian trained response of an exagerated public response to SOME cases and mass silence for others IS hypocrisy, and posts like mine are a reaction to THAT rather than the case itself

[ubermik]

@fastcars wrote:

You all sit here moaning and groaning about the media circus surrounding this case but in your own little way you are ALL contributing to it. Especially when I see people posting aerial photos of where the child’s parents ate and their daily routine from sunrise to sunset. The Sun didn’t dedicate 28 pages of its newspaper to this story like you lot have done in here. I applaud you all for your hypocrisy =D>

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Thats SUCH a media spoonfed comment fast, basically youre saying the people who oppose or criticise anything are supporting it as much as those who DO support it, and you cant see the total lack of any logic in that?

Its no different to saying the people who revolted against the aristocracy in france were no different to those who supported it, that the people who fought the nazis in WW2 were no different to those who were consciencious objectors or more recently the people who marched to make the pole tax get scrapped or those who voted on the online petition to offset the road tax by the mile system were all CONTRIBUTING to each of those as much as the people who supported them

The only people thats true of is the ones who stay totally silent and the ones who do actively support and encourage the things in question

The media is a business, they rely on public opinion, interest and support to make money. So negative views, boredom and disdain for what they do IS listened to and considered

Trying to say opposition is the same as support is a rather outdated yet still sometimes used left wing spin tactic that most people nowadays can see right through when its used SO blatantly transparently

But even if a negative opinion of something wont instantly make a difference it should still be aired because for each person who does air it several others who because of media brainwashing didnt want to be the first to express it will then feel comfortable doing so

It seems a hell of a lot of people are buying papers and watching the news IN SPITE of this media circus at the moment rather than because of it, and the more dissenting voices that are speaking the more the media will get the message about it

Only total silent apathy would be “contributing” towards it

[ubermik]

Silence is actually surprising, I said something pretty similar towards the beginning of this thread and was sniped at for being so “insensitive” lol

The thing is tho, as I also said, its a pavlovian response, people, sadly the majority are flea trained to jump when the media tells them to, they respond to the hype because socially they MIGHT be frowned upon if they dont, and even dissenters for the most part wait for someone else to vocalise disdain before uttering their paltry “me too”, never wanting to risk being the first incase the majority dont side with them

Its also to a degree people buying solace, self worth and justifying their existence

Knowing that such things now are so commonplace and that each person COULD put more effort, feel more and react more to each and every occurence or be more proactive, but they arent

So when theres a massively exagerated media farce like with this one they go overboard like that will make some imaginary balance equalise

Totally pathetic on so many levels, but also totally understandable and totally commonplace

[ubermik]

Can I have another big tut please?

I find “tuts” are far more appealing when they are firm, big and in pairs :lol:

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