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People like Thin ice like to play the victim , he likes to hang onto old grievances. and carry them around like weapons, just in case anyone ever tries to hold him accountable for something. A victim will bring up old memories and events in which they were probably legitimately hurt, but they use them as reasons
why they can’t make changes to their attitude, their life, or their circumstances in the present. These hurts and grudges underpin the victim’s hobbled life. .What’s the remedy here? This one is pretty simple. Let those grudges go! The victim needs to see that keeping grudges is only holding them down, and not doing anything to help anyone else either- although the victim may not believe this. The victim needs to recognize that freeing others of blame is actually returning all power and self-control back to the victim, so guess what? That means they no longer have to be the victim!
Whoopie my first post, thought id help the boards plod along.
My cat wrecking the christmas tree. What took me hours decoratings the cat demolished it in 5 mins. Not having a tree this year!
.Beautiful cat Blossom, hope she brings you years of happiness.
10 years this month.
