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I have frequently come across men in JC being disgusting ….. and the women laughing at them. What I wonder is, don’t these women realise that the men are being disrepectful and sexist towards women in their disgusting humour ?? Wake up women and get some self respect…as laughing at their crappy comebacks makes you as bad as them….if not worse, as you’re basically agreeing on being disrespected. Oh yes, I forgot, it’s an adult site….and that’s how adults basically behave, isn’t it….
But you constantly laugh and have banter with Alfie into the wee small hours when you think no one is looking!(and early mornings too). According to you he’s abused you verbally on skype and disrespected you over many things! So where was your self respect there then??
You can’t resist having contact with someone you say is a drug addict and mocks you over claiming your mother died when he thinks she didn’t and you said it to get attention from him! His words not mine !
How fantastically weird is it that you still respond to him and yet berate other women for responding to men who do less !
Your one weird cookie if you ask me !
Exercise some self respect Bloss and give up being an irritating, paranoid weirdo and just be you !!!
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but I can guarantee if the place was closed, you’d be gutted, thats a fact!
How very odd you presume you know how someone feels lol
im sorry angel think is the most boring thread ever 1,youre cryptic comments to mario defy beleif, 2 get over the bell end hes fck all 3we are all in our 50s and we like tamla and northern soul 4,stop trying to be the big i am angel babe 5,we dont even know what songs youre going on about 6,suck my fckn mammoth ab 7,fck off 8,its boards i can say imo. ,nobody has ever heard of your songs,we are all in our 50s and we like tamla and northern soul
A grip is what you need to get Cosy. In the history of the universe you have to be guilty of being the most boring poster. So please fekky offy and leave angel to her thread! Thank you.
no hang on a min jusst for you ld 1,ok i will stop my manifesto cos its falling on deaf ears 2,are you fckn blind as well as daft LD,ive already said my reasons for not iggying.
Sorry Cosy I rarely read everything you type due to me having a very short attention span and needing a nap between your inane boring sentences.
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,I also hate ,and ive said it many times the hi,bye,wb,brigade,but ive come to realise thats what chat is,so you know let it be innit,so consequently I prefer boards,in all my years on boards ive never seen anybody say hi,bye,wb,brb,hb ltns etc.
Y’see I don’t see it like that, Some do TRY to join in with chat but theyre cut out of it, I left this morning after watching what I can only say I found utterly distasteful, a small group of regs pulling someone apart who wasn’t in the room, and yes, one was a guide. it was like watching a pack of dogs with a fox tearing it apart I don’t want or need to see what these few do for theyre own gratification and validation, so I left.
I find those who make sly digs about people who aren’t there and whinge about what they think they can and cannot say for attention seeking purposes pretty distasteful too, but hey maybe that’s just me!
This really is an adult site isn’t it? Or am I living in a parallel universe?
yeh i know youse have all heard drone on about this before,so im going to try to dress it up in a different way ok where to start? well years ago id already planned to follow in my fathers footsteps(he died when i was 13 the big c) to join the merchant navy,school was just a blur to me from 14 onwards,luckily enough for me im naturally intelligent.only needed 3 olevels to join the merch breezed that,then i went to gravesend at kent at 16 in 1981 to sea college,anyway i was going to write a monologue,i cba youse lot cba reading it so i will cut to the chase,got on a train from charing cross to kent,and i saw this graffiti it said FOR GODS SAKE WHY DONT THE BBC SEE SENSE AND SACK JIMMY YOUNG i was like whos he but somewhere in the back of my mind i knew he was a geezer from radio 2,us kids never listened to that %%%%,oops nearly swore then but as you know i refuse to swear on my op threads,so ive never really thought about it till tonight,so i goes on/in f3 and theres heathery aka moi not letting any chatter getting a word in edgeways apart from his moll/sidekick gucci,yeh yeh ive heard all this jusiggy him cose we all do,but thats not the point if you iggy somebody it disrupts my flow ,not just me others,so my mind goes back to 1981.FOR GODS SAKE WHY CANT ADMIN SEE SENSE AND BAN MOI oh woh hate seeing anybody banned btw,but why not plonk him in f2,where him and gucci can yap each others ears off and leave us others to chat,its a win win situation to me,they arent banned,we can chat,everyones a winner baby,bet you nobody goes into f2 and wonders i think i just go and tune into the gucci and moi show do you see my point? if you dont tell me where im wrong?.
Admin will never ban anyone to order Cosy especially for you!.. Your constant bashing of Moi and Gucci is so boring now! What’s wrong with you, use your iggy man. Dear god haven’t you got anything better to think about !
Am I to believe that you are staff here Rosepetal? So.. Rosepetal in response to your points: You opened this chat community and you have to deal with everything that is thrown at you because that is why you have the role of owner/staff. We do by not taking most of it too seriously. So you are admitting you don’t take the abuse/trolling seriously nor are willing to help people who come to you for guidance because it shouldn’t be taken too seriously? What if the shoe was on the other foot and you were the subject for the trolls and you had no way of doing anything about it because you were a chatter only, I’m certain you would want things done by the staff members, wouldn’t you? Also laws are a lot different to when this place first started out whenever that may have been, i’m guessing years. for this place to get to this level of cruelty:- Indeed, however both NS and myself have had several dealings with the police in the past two years regarding some of the more serious trolling issues with certain chatters. Although most chatters naturally won’t believe that or believe that there are some on going investigations, I can assure you it’s true. Both of us of late have been impressed with the police response we have had but due to them having so many other things to deal with it takes time. And, again I’m going to have a wild guess that nothing has surfaced in any courts because the whole truth has been twisted to protect the ones that keep the money rolling in? It only takes time when evidence is not given, or the truth is twisted in as many ways as you want it to be to keep this community protected. You have the ability and the tools to stop the trolls. :- We have a ban and gag facility, the Hosts can cookie ban and gag any chatter at any time. The chatter can come back with 10 minutes. No Host or Guide can be here 24/7. There are no other tools. Come on now Rose we all know that’s wrong in every degree, you as staff have access to Ips?..Ips can be traced and you also will know what provider their internet is coming from, how’s about contacting their ISP and have their internet cut off for let’s say.. abusive ways? It can be done and it has been done on many occasions, so yes there is other ways to deal with it but as I said previously it seems that you can’t be bothered it’s too much hassle for this online community. NEVER trust them!:- Misogynists, egocentrics, narcissists, paranoid’s, schizophrenic’s and total FckWits are always trusted by those who think they can change them because they often misogynistic, narcissistic, paranoid, schizophrenic FckWits themselves. As hard as you try they won’t listen! Seems it’s not just the chatters that aren’t trusted here, the staff don’t seem to have a good record neither, maybe because people have come to you pleading with you to do something about the rubbish going on and you just tell them to forget it or use ignore, but that never achieves anything in the long run, you want a better place to chat then things need to be changed, don’t they? Listen to the users of this community without them you wouldn’t be needed here nor would u have somewhere to go neither. a duty of care:- Now I’ve heard it all! Seriously, these are adults who enter the Chatroom. The rules blatantly state, don’t give out personal information. There is no contractual agreement that says anyone should care about anyone! Yes, yes you do have a duty of care for the people whom come here to chat, if you didn’t then the laws would not have been changed, Ignoring a chatters plea to help them in whatever circumstance arises at whatever time is negligence and therefore that could lead to a chatter self-harming, drug use or worse, you know many of your chatters have mental health issues therefore all of above is possible, if you know of someone’s mental state and you chose to ignore that then that is wrong and the duty of care for that person has just been brushed off because all they are is a number or a name on your screen. It’s not about caring about strangers, it’s about you as staff doing the right thing by people, Yes some have problems some don’t but they all need the same amount of respect from staff members who are supposed to be online to help when they are logged in as staff! Live your lives instead of wasting your good years on pathetic people:- The best advice ever! I know that is why it was typed. But in all seriousness here, Why have you only picked up on a few of my points what about the rest?. Or do u fully agree with them? Auf Wiedersehn. x
Calm down now Dixie. I thought your post was great and yes I whole heartedly agree with many of your points.
But as unpaid staff it’s not our job to either care or delve into people’s mental state and issues they suffer or don’t as the case may be.
We are not counsellor’s we are there simply there to moderate the room when we can.
If a chatter chooses to self- harm or takes drugs that’s not our responsibility, no one forces them to come and chat and get caught up things they can’t get themselves out of. That’s what that little white X in the red box is for!
Having said that I would defy you to ask some of the chatters that have suffered severe trolling and ask them how much both NS and myself have gone out of our way to do what we can with the time we have available to devote to chatters.
This is often where all that whinging about us not being fair comes from. Simply because we do have respect for all people but for those who have seemed to suffer more strife than others we have devoted our time to help in ways that you will never know and therefore might seem we don’t care about others.
I doubt that will satisfy your need to bash the owner and staff for not being caring but you crack on, it will affect us not one iota. We do what we can, it’s an adult site and all adults are capable of making their own choices.
i go in F2 and can I say what a lovely group of peeple are in their. so we dont want anyone bad coming in ty espetially this moi person who orson says is horrid. We dont want fat ugly trolls in our room but if you are cool then you may come in .
Well it’s not for you to say who can and can’t go in Forum Two now is it?
All i’ve seen on here is Moaning, Bitching with lashings of Paranoia. It’s really simple, you moan about the place being ruined by all the rubbish going on, well do something about it, what is coming on here going to achieve? but let them know they’re getting to you, the staff of this place all need to come together and stand strong and not allow it, no favourites! we’ve seen the favouritism, dont say it don’t happen, IT DOES. It’s okay saying ‘Use Ignore’ kind of a catch 22 there..the trolls are doing it for shock tactic behavior and the chatters will ALWAYS defend themselves as would anyone being abused/trolled online. What we cannot change is how people feel, some are more vulnerable than others and do you not have a duty of care towards your chatters? The simple fact is YES you do. You opened this chat community and you have to deal with everything that is thrown at you because that is why you have the role of owner/staff. Also laws are a lot different to when this place first started out whenever that may have been, i’m guessing years.. for this place to get to this level of cruelty. You have the ability and the tools to stop the trolls, but it’s clear to see that you don’t want to because so long as they are in the place causing havoc it’s keeping numbers up and money in the owners pocket! It’s correct every log in earns money, right!? “The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it.” Think about this, why do the trolls/abusers do what they do online? Because the reality is.. in reality they have NADA. They choose to do what they do because they are clutching at the short straws left by them that left their world and they hate the fact of losing control totally, so here they are in their sad existance to try and belittle everyone else to make themselves feel better, when infact they probably cry themselves to sleep more than a person with a troubled life. They hide behind a persona they have spent years building and they thrive on drawing people to their world, but it never lasts because their true colours show eventually. Then comes the paranoia because people never know where they are at with the people they ‘think’ they know, infact you never fully know somebody online, NEVER trust them! It will drive you insane and that there then sets another set of wheels in motion for the trolls, something else to thrive on. Live your lives instead of wasting your good years on pathetic people, who don’t deserve the breath in your body and love those that love you back and treat you well, Arrivederci x
In response to your points Dixie:-
You opened this chat community and you have to deal with everything that is thrown at you because that is why you have the role of owner/staff.
We do by not taking most of it too seriously.
Also laws are a lot different to when this place first started out whenever that may have been, i’m guessing years. for this place to get to this level of cruelty:-
Indeed, however both NS and myself have had several dealings with the police in the past two years regarding some of the more serious trolling issues with certain chatters. Although most chatters naturally won’t believe that or believe that there are some on going investigations, I can assure you it’s true. Both of us of late have been impressed with the police response we have had but due to them having so many other things to deal with it takes time.
You have the ability and the tools to stop the trolls. :-
We have a ban and gag facility, the Hosts can cookie ban and gag any chatter at any time. The chatter can come back with 10 minutes. No Host or Guide can be here 24/7. There are no other tools.
NEVER trust them!:-
Misogynists, egocentrics, narcissists, paranoid’s, schizophrenic’s and total FckWits are always trusted by those who think they can change them because they often misogynistic, narcissistic, paranoid, schizophrenic FckWits themselves.
As hard as you try they won’t listen!
a duty of care:-
Now I’ve heard it all! Seriously, these are adults who enter the Chatroom. The rules blatantly state, don’t give out personal information. There is no contractual agreement that says anyone should care about anyone!
Live your lives instead of wasting your good years on pathetic people:-
The best advice ever!
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I Want to Break Free. Queen
Heard It Through the Grapevine (Marvin Gaye)
We’re Going on a Bear hunt ( My grandkids love it)
Diana Ross. Chain Reaction (Loves all things Motown)
Beyonce. Halo
Carmen – Habanera (Anna Caterina Antonacci)
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