OMalleyTheAlleyCat

Well, I can only speak for myself, obviously, but I’d be interested in reading those thoughts. I hope my approach and lack of ‘commitment’ won’t put you off.

Eyup thtoooopid!

Oh wait… no… hang on.. ya right!!

I take that right back!

Tho Thorry Mooothey!

Oh c’monnnnn Nemesis.. lazy here remember lol!  ‘Throws’ indeed!  A gentle roll will suffice.  But I appreciate the gesture!

So constructed only to appear ‘headline-like’ – but really just acknowledgement of your  genuine wish to continue the debate and to ‘provoke’ my lazy ass into contributing (the gain).

See above. No guns jumped here (that sounds like a very energetic thing to do btw!).

Showing off? By posting without much prior thought? By openly stating I…[Read more]

I have to admit, I’m torn. On the one hand, I recognise I’m being urged, by various methods (all of which are fair in love, war and board chat), to contribute more.  On the other hand, that ball of wool ain’t gonna chase itself. Okay, I’ll do a bit. Then I’ll be all about the wool… or the ball… I never know which it is that attracts me so.  It…[Read more]

You mean we all do things differently?

I don’t recall asking Scep for an explanation, simply stated that his assumption intrigued me.

Again, my post was selfish. They were questions that popped into my head, which I posted for the purpose of discussion.  I had very few preconceived ideas, other than what an Alpha is to me, which I’ve since posted.  I’m still considering the other q…[Read more]

Purpose to the thread

“I’m quite selfish in that I want to hear the opinions of others purely to see if they bring anything new to the table.  Perhaps something I’ve not considered before. Something I may even adopt over my current thinking.”

Throwing out a hook, see what the catch would be

“I’m just after opinions (and defini…[Read more]

Please forgive my lazy, non-quotey reply.

1) I never mentioned gender.

2) If you Googled, cut and pasted – I’d rather have your opinions (unless of course, the paste reflects exactly your own opinion, in which case thank you).

3) I wasn’t particularly interested in the history of the terminology (I have Google and other resources for that pur…[Read more]

Please forgive my lazy, non-quotey reply.

1) I never mentioned gender.

2) If you Googled, cut and pasted – I’d rather have your opinions (unless of course, the paste reflects exactly your own opinion, in which case thank you).

3) I wasn’t particularly interested in the history of the terminology (I have Google and other resources for that pur…[Read more]

I’m just after opinions (and definitions). I may well give mine a little later, but in the meantime, I’d like to know what other people think – rather than discussing mine.

I will say though, that to me, a True Alpha never bullies.

@frankly_frank wrote:

Welcome Rainbowwwww :D xxxxx If I give you my login details.. will ya do some posts for me? Any old tripe will do.. just try to make me look windswept and interesting.. ta :D xx

People left before? Can’t say as I noticed…

@Bemused Bystander wrote:

@OMalleyTheAlleyCat wrote:

This is all so confusing.

Can all the baddies wear black and all the good ‘un’s wear white please – like in all the old TV progs and movies. Oh wait, then I’d have to ask people what they’re wearing. Scrap that.

Ok.. can somebody who is trustworthy and a good judge of character, please compile…

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This is all so confusing.

Can all the baddies wear black and all the good ‘un’s wear white please – like in all the old TV progs and movies. Oh wait, then I’d have to ask people what they’re wearing. Scrap that.

Ok.. can somebody who is trustworthy and a good judge of character, please compile a list of chat goodies and baddies so I know who to…[Read more]

@(f)politics? wrote:

Well alley, thanks for this, after two attempts, I’m positively ……

MALE ….

Wtf ! :?

Awww Poli.. I don’t think it’s an exact science lol, but if ya need me to vouch for ya anytime.. just let me know. In fact.. if ya have to fill any forms in or anything, where it asks for “Sex” – just put “Female – ask OMalley” :D

@rogue trader wrote:

hang on mal;let me get this right,are you suggesting there may be men masquerading as ladeees on these here boards?

The thought never entered my mind… ‘onest… :-

@sceptical guy wrote:

…then you’re not really being bullied – you’ve let the a-hole push you into a fight, which is different.

But surely, being ‘pushed into a fight’ still counts as being bullied. After all, if there was no initial ‘pushing’, there would be no ‘fight’ right?

To be honest, I don’t think the majority of people actually think of…[Read more]