Well said Su xxxx
My motto is …. don’t let anyone get close online unless you are very very sure who they are! Time is a great revealer!
I agree about the bullies …..you can’t let them take over and affect what YOU want to do …. the fact that you are still around proves you have won and are most definitely the better person. Believe in who you are – friendly, funny and kind (cept when you nick my beanbag!!)
xxxx =D>
ahem … cats DO clean their bottoms ….. they are constantly washing themsleves!!!
… probably cleaner than many humans, who also go for a wee and don’t wash their hands!!!
Both my cats are allowed on the beds :D
Marmite sleeps on “her” bed and Treacle sleeps on mine ….. usually in the middle …. spread out …. leaving me squashed on the end!
Or else she lies on top of me, kneading and purring :D
Apart from the fact that I like having them there …… it’s easier than putting up with the miaowing and scratching at the door!