[NewcastleNicola]

Oh so you believe me now lol!

Yeah, I was only 17 though. I did try and say no, in fact I pretty much did, but they were like well just come out and see what happens, but you’re right! but we were all young and silly once :) xx

[NewcastleNicola]

@tiffany wrote:

@danny2011 wrote:

why log out or dont log in here anymore coz of the abusive chatters mucks why should u want to do that its them that should be logging of promptly its like u agree to what they do then mucks well done there are plenty of nice nd genuine ppl that wanna chat nd have light banter not to chat with abusive nd offensive chatters why should u stop coming on coz of them bad ppl its the guides problem 2 sort out those from the rest nd ban um 4 life lad lol iv finished this rage 4 abit lol

Agreed danny, saying oh don’t come into the room anymore is as good as saying ‘let the abusers get away with it.’ This site has rules, and the abusers are breaking the rules so they are the ones who should not be able to use the site anymore. It’s not fair to suggest the good users be the ones who should have to leave.
The sick thing about all of this aswell is the fact the abusers find it hilarious to what they are doing. Again, yesterday evening I went into F1. First words typed to me as soon as I came in the room was ‘Oh look its tiffany, wheres your kids? why arent you looking after them? Are they fending for themselves again?’ Other comments made to me suggested I dont feed my kids, too many sexual comments where made that I feel too physically sick to repeat it for word for word, but lets just say it involved third suggesting he would rape them.He has even said in the past how he wants them to die, and has changed his name to things like I want to f_cuk tiffs kids and other sick names (How can this be tolerated? It’s damn right sick!!). Now, it wasnt so long ago that I reported essy for spamming my email address and abusing me and my kids in the room, and not just once but more or less everyday or otherday for 6 months. So how anybdy can say just grow a pair to that i will never know.. its not like its a one off? it happens regularly, almost every day. When i reported essy, all that happened was his name got banned. All he had to do was put the . after his name and hey presto he was back in. So the abuse starts all over again.
Third even read this thread apparenty and thinks its hilarious, especially my post. I guess its giving him the attention he craves and so desperately needs which is why I am going to try not post on this particular thread again. I honestly feel if this keeps up, JC is going to lose alot more chatters all for the sake of a few idiots with too much times on their hands. I can totally see where Nic is coming from on this and I understand why she feels the need to leave, its not nice having to put up with sick comments like that,

Let them laugh :) Whenever I went on chat before work in the morning, the usual bullies would be online, I’m talking about 9-10am if I came online in the evening, they’d be online, and when I was off on hol from work last week, if i was online a bit later they’d still be online. If I spoke to chatters about things that had happened during the day, it would involve their names. Their life, is coming online, and abusing people, so be it for a laugh in their warped minds, and we’re being pathetic for being offended because after all, it’s just a joke?! :D Even though they might ‘think’ they’re winning, and if we leave, they’ve won and will move onto the next person. At the end of the day, that’s what their LIFE is about. So, when you’re at work, or caring for your kids, when you’re out with your friends, not thinking about chat, nowhere near a computer… they’ll be sat here, doing what they always do. They’re the laughable ones :) xxx

[NewcastleNicola]

@tinks wrote:

An online relationship can flourish, be it in a slightly different way just like relationships do off the computer………there have been many couples who have walked off into the sunset……..mine being one of them :D

Good for you, Tinks :)
Did you meet them on JC?
xx

[NewcastleNicola]

@danny2011 wrote:

from my point of view i clearly think no 1 is genuine from the site if im honest iv bin away from it 3 weeks now apart from the boards commenting etc i think the majority that arrive on just chat are all back stabbers nd not to encounter with tbh cheaters u would get easily heartbroken from just chat tbh i dont think freely of all chatters of the profound aka decency nd loyalty which is rare 2 find these days u need proper profiles on this site i reckon before u enter etc to see what chatters is nd the character of that specific person is .

im not bothered if i get back all negative sentences tbh im sure i make sense . i think who thinks abusive nd violent attacks nd racist attacks across the net should be tolerated is deluded its giving ammunition 2 them 2 carry on without tackling it yeah just use iggy report it or just dont cum on 2 a chat site anymore is the way forward there back on the next day no job done yeah i think everyones statements on here is pathetic no1 said about tackling it. just leave or just use iggy typical eh…

oh tinks iv put 3 full stops on the end is that crossing the line or just enough 2 stop the sentence lol

any replies welcum lol

I’m even questioning whether to use the boards, I’ve noticed people are quick to have a go at you thinking they’re better than you on here. I was even accused of making up my post about worst dates, believe it or not I don’t have that much time on my hands. :?

[NewcastleNicola]

@blossom‘ wrote:

Lol, I don’t see a point to such a date Nicola , seems a bit made up to me, who in their right mind would go on a date with someone they don’t like? :lol:

What?! lol.
I was 17, and this bloke was really sweet, i just didn’t fancy him. was more like a sympathy date. Don’t like or believe what I have to say, tough! :D I’m only trying to start some different threads, next time I won’t bother :) xxxx

[NewcastleNicola]

@rogue trader wrote:

happy smuggy hour,two for one

LOL.. Oi !!!!!!!

Nowt wrang with wor Ant nd Dec man! ;)

xx

[NewcastleNicola]

@mucky1234 wrote:

Then, you have done the right thing Nicola by announcing your retirement from JC. Again, it’s not right, it’s a shame, but it’s life, chat etc.

And at this bleedin rate i won’t be coming back myself!!!

:)

Lol @ retired
I haven’t left completely, I just don’t use the chat rooms. I bet it’s falling apart without me in there and my words of wisdom.. ;) lol

xxx

[NewcastleNicola]

@desmondy wrote:

@eva licious wrote:

i hope they get raped is one example ive saw in the room

So the parent who objects to a comment like that about their children should ‘grow a pair’, or switch off and find another chat room?

Is this what you’re saying?

There are those who need to grow a pair but its not the ones you say. Switch off and bury your head in the sand? Well if such a thing was said about my children I certainly wouldn’t. Nor would I feel the need to grow some gonads!

You going into a pub isnt the same as having some idiot making perverted and disgusting comments about children. At least it isnt in my world. Maybe I am wrong…

THANK YOU DESMONDY!

that is the point i was originally making in my post! I can take being called names, its playground bullying, it gets tiring and a pain in the backside as like tiffany said, you ignore them, they come in as someone else, it’s never ending, it does get you down, more so if your already in a vunrable position, however when someone makes perverted ‘jokes’ about children (in my case, my niece, in tiffs case, her own kids) its wrong, plain and simple, lets pretend we are in a pub, if someone, no matter how drunk insulted me about my family or children, i’d want to punch their face in to be honest. its unacceptable!

[NewcastleNicola]

@rogue trader wrote:

yeh why not,its worth a try, i know of a few people on here that have got married.

I was hoping more people would reply with stories like that! :D I like hearing the success stories as well as b*tchy juicy ones! haha. A friend of mine got married to someone they met online about 8 year ago, they’re still together now. People can be genuine online, i feel myself am very genuine, don’t see the point in pretending to be someone your not, one day it will come back and bite ya in the bum! xx

[NewcastleNicola]

When I was younger, I thought I was in love with someone I met via the net. I didn’t understand what love really was back then, as I’d never really been in love before, or had a proper relationship, but like you say I guess it was their personality I fell for. I met this person, and they were very different to what I expected. Even when you see pics, chat to them for hours, you build up a preconceived idea of what they’ll be like, and I guess people put their best photo’s online, or sometimes really old ones (or fake ones!), and can be whoever they want online. In this case, Mr confident womanizer.. but in real life, not a chance! I did love this person when we met up and we had a relationship, but it all ended in tears.

The thing I found, and have learned from, if you meet someone online and end up dating, and continue to talk to them online when you’re not together physically, I know this is when trust comes into it, but I mean.. how do you not know they’re talking to several other girls? I found out, this person had. I also found out, because of the distance, he told me an awful lot of lies about his life, about his past, even claimed he had ex girlfriends he would bump into in the street and call me names. In the end, I found out through asking people he knew for real and family members about all of this. Everything had been a lie, and the ex girlfriends had been made up, and the name calling, came from him. He thought all of those things himself.

:(

The net can be such a dangerous place for ‘love’

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