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@wordsworth60 wrote:
@(f)politics? wrote:
you make a good point words about being honest about emotions the only problem with that sometimes for various reasons, whether you have no one to share them with, or people dont understand you and just tell you to get on with it or gloss over the subject not wanting to know, these things can build up and cause a rare reaction to their normal behaviours, simply because everyone and i mean everyone, or anyone (look at the vicar on emmerdale lol ) are capable of reaching a point where reason doesnt come into it, this can result in breakdowns, violent behaviours and so forth. Repeated behaviours like this are not acceptable and a different thing entirely.
Just for the record i am in no way condoning any form of domestic violence either towards a man or a woman. These feelings can be taken to extreme reactions more so with the use of crutches, ie.. alcohol and or drugs, none of it an excuse merely making the point every one can be human and have weaknesses or fail in reasonable and acceptable behaviours if the mind is pushed to an extreme. And yes these people need help i agree with panda, on that.
I would also like to add that verbal and emotional abuse, especially repeatedly, can be as harmful, indeed i would say at times more harmful too.This might be where Mr Waterman’s linguistic distinctions might have some validity. There are abusers whose behaviour stems from built up emotions such as frustration or anger. There are also those who consciously or otherwise groom victims, using emotional and verbal abuse to rob them of their personal and social identity before exploiting the resulting dependency and vulnerability with shows of violent power.
The grooming of behaviour is totally unacceptable. The being pushed to a point could well be acceptable. I’m not a wife beater, therefore I can only talk through sense. End of, good night, loved JC!
@panda12 wrote:
I was wondering @ what age does this child need to reach before it is considered sex abuse.
Probably your age darling x
@panda12 wrote:
@londonseagull wrote:
Wordsworth, I find you a very articulate poster and if I came across and a ‘knob’ I apologise. I wasn’t talking about Mr Waterman personally, I was talking in general. Women do, many times, cause men to lose their temper, and whether or not it is right, men will retaliate. It may be repulsive, which is not defendable, but sometimes, just sometimes, these women really do deserve a punch. My ex wife once told me she deliberately got me angry in order to get a reaction. I didn’t punch her however, I just told her to get out of the room and proceeded to rip it apart. Women are not stupid, they know what they are doing.
Children cause their fathers’s to lose their temper as well. Is it okay for the father to lose it and hit the children?
Men, woman and children who resort to violence whatever the provocation need help.
Mums don’t hit kids? Grow up.
Sorry Melody, I didn’t accuse you of anything, I am sure you are a lovely person. I was generalising as I usually try to do. Nothing against you.
Wordsworth, I find you a very articulate poster and if I came across and a ‘knob’ I apologise. I wasn’t talking about Mr Waterman personally, I was talking in general. Women do, many times, cause men to lose their temper, and whether or not it is right, men will retaliate. It may be repulsive, which is not defendable, but sometimes, just sometimes, these women really do deserve a punch. My ex wife once told me she deliberately got me angry in order to get a reaction. I didn’t punch her however, I just told her to get out of the room and proceeded to rip it apart. Women are not stupid, they know what they are doing.
You’ve lost it.
@panda12 wrote:
@londonseagull wrote:
I care not to agree with either of yours throw away attitude, simples.
Whatever.
Panda it is all very well doing the Women’s lib bit but you cannot have your cake and eat it. If someone comes at you with a knife (happened to me), would you care what sex they are? To me I defend myself. If someone hits you, male or female do you stand by and say ‘hey it’s a woman I’ll let her off’? Sometimes women, as much as men deserve what they get. And the fucking woman’s card will not work!
I care not to agree with either of yours throw away attitude, simples.
@mucky1234 wrote:
Flippin eck! Remind me not to get on the bad side of any of you lot!!!
Also, just to clarify, it’s a chatroom. You may have noticed that on occassion people lie, cheat, abuse etc etc etc. I have even spotted a few people in there using fake names……like mucky1234, which isn’t my real name btw!!!
Chillax and enjoy the sunshine would be my advice
xxxx
Yes people on here do fake, from lies to deceit to taking peoples lives as a complete nothing and throwing them about like a toy. I don’t think it is something you just write off as ‘hey it’s just the internet’… it affects lives whether you think it sad or lonely or not. There are laws nowadays that protect people from online harassment and abuse, so it is actually quite serious.
