lolly

@Pete wrote:

Muslim extremists are in a minority not a majority, of course muslims have computers etc. As for the Ireland question, did violence achieve anything ? I’d say bloody right it did, the IRA didnt just decide oh dear this is wrong. We took N Ireland they wanted it back the Jews took Palestine they want it back. And for how many thousands…

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I agree wholeheartedly it is easier to give advice and be emotionally adult when it comes to other people, i feel the reason we cannot council ourselves so easily is because we no longer use our heads, we use our emotions and our family of origin dictates our reactions and behaviour, even though intellectually we can reason this our raw emotions…[Read more]

You seem well grounded and i have no doubt from reading your posts that you have all the qualities required to set your girls up with the best start possible. To be compasionate, patient and reliable seems to do the trick, and my instinct tells me you are all those things. xx

I agree with what you say cath but feel its a game of russian roulette when a parent knowingly takes a chance with a childs emotional outcome. At some level not having emotional intelligence makes it excusable to an extent, but i guess i am talking about the ones that see what they are doing and yet continue.

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Bless you Cath xx

Planned or unplanned – my child is a blessing.

The love of a child is something that is pure and unconditional; every time we hurt our beautiful precious child the child will blame themselves for not being good enough or worthy. When of course we are not the worthy ones. Do we want to pass on this legacy, why is it that the only consistent t…[Read more]

Hello Pete im sure the novelty will wear off a bit but i have just lit me bonfire!!!!

thanks for saying hi xx since when were lollipops norty??

Bat hello to you and thankyou for your chivalry – a rare quality – look forward to more chat, lolly xx

Hi there Sharon thanks for your welcome – i have been reading a lot of your posts and think we…[Read more]

Thanks Cath, its all a bit new need to find my feet, i must say i have read some very interesting stuff and some a bit silly too!! but look forward to getting involved. xxx

Thanks Toy for a very gracious welcome. I am looking forward to discovering the world of Arts corner, and maybe contributing something of vague interest here and there. Hello Cath too xxx