[Laine]

Don’t take it personally Rogue, they cannot help it, they call people attention seekers, ugly, fat, snob, posh, liars, murderers even, pull it around……… its projection.
some are so unhappy with their lives they need to hit out at others, to try to make others feel as bad as themselves. that way they don’t feel so bad. kind of……. Ha! ive upset someone now they know how it feels.

some feel you owe them something, because of their sad lives, (erm, its a chatroom?)
they need to turn it off, look in a mirror and get some fresh air.

i was recently accused of being jealous, maybe because they were? but i don’t do jealous, if someone wants to chat to me fine, i’ll chat to anyone, i don’t know anyone personally, and don’t have the need to know about them, they only know snippets about me, not how my life is now only some of my past, but it keeps the gossips happy.
which even then makes you realise just how sad they are huh?
think ive been called everything under the bright blazing yellow thing in here and in chat, but……. they don’t know me. do i care? no, there’s an off button.
do i care what names people use? nope, if people want to use different names no ones business except their own, and no one has the right to ask why. only thing is those who do it to “spy” (even made myself laugh then) to glean info on people to hit out at them. or to abuse others because oooooo its scary … cmon.. they need to grow up! most wont abuse unless a mate is in holding their hand or been rung or texted to give the latest. never felt the need to give my number to anyone. been called names for it, do i care? not a jot! its my number only people i want to have it will have it.
for the record, im not a drunk nor bi polar, i have never commited murder or harmed anyone, i didnt marry my husband for his money i already had my own. not that its anyones business but. whatever floats their raft i guess. being widowed isnt easy. but you have little choice but to get on with life. and i intend to live mine to its fullest before i toddle off this mortal plain, and if anyone thinks anything they say in a chatroom can “hurt” me….. i pity them. i have an off button too!

[Laine]

After a very busy weekend i went to bed exhausted.

slept like a log woke before sunrise did my usual stuff (cleaning) then went to feed the birds in the garden, fill up seed feeders peanut feeders etc and clean out the bird bath and put fresh water in (setting the scene) the sun was shining by this time the birds singing their little beaks off.

i turned to see the first Robin of autumn sitting on my garden fence singing away, it was so very beautiful, makes me glad to be alive i just stood there…… listening, taking in the joy it felt.

Have a wonderful day everyone!

[Laine]

my Grandson just posted this on his news feed on faceache.

its so simple i had to share it here.

“Free the world, not by taking men’s lives, but by taking their tongues… The only way we can unite as one. “

not sure whether its his own words or pasted from somewhere but……… makes sense to me!

as for the photos Lucy, yes i agree depends which you look at, but i will just say this, even the most placid dog backed into a corner will eventually bite, some are fighting for their lives against the religious killings

[Laine]

i’m Loving it, nothing quite like debating a serious topic

x

[Laine]

just a quick point of fact……. there was no “but”….. in my post.

im multi cultural as stated.

[Laine]

agree with most here, particularly Scep, its about time someone somewhere pulled their finger out, i read an article early this morning Theresa May stating people can only come here “if” they have jobs. a lot of British people don’t have jobs, so was that a slamming of a door in the face of these poor unfortunates?.

My only …….. and yes i do mean “ONLY” problem with migrants and refugees is this. most are genuine.

We visit other countries and have to observe their laws and cultures whatever they may be, i know this because i have travelled extensively, and have to pack accordingly.

“some” of the people settling here, expect us to still observe their laws and cultures to the point (and i can quantify this) british people are beginning to get “scared” one in particular my very good friend Maureen who lives just outside Wimbledon. she was walking home from the shops and decided to take a short cut, was greeted by some muslim lads who told her to “f OFF” it was islam not england in that road and British people are not allowed to use it anymore.

it is little wonder that people have reservations, there have been some bad experiences, even my niece lived in a part of London where the road names arent in English anymore. the land and properties were bought by migrants so what do people expect?.

i agree that something needs to be done about the refugees its horrific what theyre going through, i had a neighbour awhile back from Kurdistan, Sunni muslim. he had been imprisoned in his own country and taken to saudi arabia where he was forced to train as part of their army, he fled, came to the uk and made this his home with his wife, wonderful caring loving couple, learned english got his british passport and has always stayed in touch with me, i was even present at the birth of their daughter and was called Nanna Laine.

I’m in no way racist, im from a multi cultural background myself, black white beige brown, you name it.
i still think those in power need to go watch Carl Sagans video called the pale blue dot it certainly puts life on earth into perspective.

[Laine]

When you’re waiting……… and waiting…….. and waiting…… grrrrrrrrrrr

Tardiness , i absolutely cannot abide it!

[Laine]

I Love watching Bloss, so entertaining for a psychologist like me.

contradicting herself constantly, and accusing others of things she does herself.

Thanks for the giggles Bloss (whoever he is) lol

[Laine]

[Laine]

just a couple of my cakes

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