i never said he wasnt entititled to post what he wanted, as i said in my post everyone should be able to post what they want , if ppl want to moan and groan so be it , but if others want to post piccys of there loved ones , or put up question and answer threads so be it , everyone is entitled to there own opinions and choices, and actually things had calmed down till someone came in stirring it all up again, it wouldnt have mattered who had posted the thread well at least not to me, all i was trying to point out was that it is a general forum and we are entitled to post about whatever topics we want if one topic spills into another , shyte happens, its a message board , personally i think maybe a picture thread could be created that like the spit the dummy thread , members can only view it when they are logged in and have registered :?
Anyway, yes i am a mum and yes i am a proud mum and now a proud grandma and i wont apologise to anyone for that :)