[jenndudess1]

I agree.
And in an ideal world a girl should be able to wear what she wants and not have to think if her outfit is going to end in a rape.

But sadly, in the world we live in, there are guys out there that are mentaly unstable and can not controll there urges.
You cant tell by looking at sombody if they are going to rape you or not.
Actually, you could be living with a bloke for years and still not know that he is capable of rape.

The point im trying to make is, Girls have a responsabilty for there own saftey.
They cant rely on the social acceptance that rape is wrong.
Thats not going to prevent anything.
In my opinion, If a girl is wearing next to nothing and teasing a bloke all night and promising him a sexual incounter with the agenda of blanking him at the end of the night, she has put her own life in danger.
Im not trying to justfiy the actions of a rapist.

And Im not going to apolagise for my opinion.
But girls have a responsabilty to look out for there own saftey.
Unfortunatly is the world we live in.

[jenndudess1]

In bed.
In him. 8)
In the jax.
In the kitchen, but then I forgot what I was there for so went back to bed.
In the kitchen again.
Actually in the fuggin fridge lookin for food.
In the elivator.
In the underground car park.
In the car.
In the bank.
In the que.
Back in the car.
and back in bed 8)

[jenndudess1]

@cath 55 wrote:

one of my biggest worries is the amount of women who are raving about it , will it make those men with dominant tendencies jsut do more thinking its all ok cos of the hype? excuse themselves saying well its what women want?

I am not a prude and role play for instance in any bodys world is fine but beng controlled and dominated in general life is not in my opinion….

some say its a love story………well for women who liive with domination/controlling any love is better than none maybe?

of course, there are those that do like it i dont take that away from them but thinkk about it ladies , your man comes home , asks you if you have been out, you forget you popped to the shop earlier for a pint of milk or ciggies or whatever…….. you answer no…..he finds out later u did go out………..result? punishment.

its excapism for some maybe this book and i dont take that away from the author her sales team have done an excellent job of course and enjoy the book if you are reading thats just my 10 penneth worth .

I had a simular conversation with my mate about this.

If you take porn for example. Its so easy to just gogle and find tones of porn. Men watch a lot of porn and see an immage on screen and think that its real life.
If you watch soaps, you can automaticly regester in your mind that although its simular to real life, its not actually real.
Men dont see that with porn. The see the immage as it is and become frustrated when it doesnt happen in real life.

I think the same is happing with this book.
All the girls cant get enough of it. And all the blokes are thinking “great, this will spice up our sex life”.
But in my opinion the difference between men and wemon is that wemon can see the line between reailty and fantisy. Blokes cant.
Wemon reading that book will see a love story.
Men will see it as an invitation to wip the crap out of there other half.

[jenndudess1]

I agree with Jen-Jen.

I do think that girls should be more aware of there actions. For example, Ive personaly seen mates of mine (males) beeing “teasd” all night from girls.
Girls wearing next to nothing and flirting outragously with guys, getting them to buy them drink all night with the promice of somthing sexual happing at the end of the night only for them to blank the guy at the end of the night.
Now in no way am I saying a girl like this is “asking to be raped”, but to a point I belive that in cases like this the girl should take some ownership of her actions.
Ok, I know that sounds like im saying she walked her self into that.
There is no excuse to justify a rape. EVER!

But I would love to ask girls who “tease” blokes like that what there agenda is?
What do they expect the bloke to do?
again…No excuse for rape.
But I sapose the point im trying to make is these kind of girls need to put the shoe on the other foot.
Ive seen this kind of behavour from both sides.

Ive seen girls in night clubs plouging guys with drink in the hope to “seduse” them.
And some how thats social acceptable :?

I sapose if you read between the lines there is a message there for guys……Dont buy a girl drinks all night in the hope that your gona bed her later.
I do feel sorry for guys of this behavour. They are put on a promice the whole night only to be treated like crap in the click of a finger.

[jenndudess1]

Im not great at this kind of thing ether.

but If you go to edit your profile, right down the very bottom of the page it give you the option to post the link for it.
just hit submit and it should show up :wink:

I did mine…but I just dont know how :lol:

[jenndudess1]

Well holy fook balls :shock:

who actually went threw the troubble of changing the name P.A.t.s chat?

Like…………. WHY :shock:

[jenndudess1]

Its gota be rock for me 8)

There is a cool vido on youtube of a guy sitting in his bedroom with his guitar, clasicl music in the background and he is jammin out a solo on his guitar.
Totaly awsome vid.

But I cant upload the link

Because A: I cant be arzed to search youtube for it, and B: everytime I ask my computer to do somthing extra it just spits out smoke at me :roll: And C: Did I mention I just couldnt be arzed? :wink:

[jenndudess1]

Think there is somthing simular in the pipe line for Ireland too.

Its about time. Im sick to death of meeting people who tink being on benifits is a career?
Its sick the amount of people I know that are not intrested in working.

Cant wait to see there lill faces when this comes into effect in Ireland. :)

[jenndudess1]

I type as fast as I speak, so most of the time I just post a whole load of tripe.
But today, Ive got false nails on ….so typing is hard.

(so is wipeing my azz, falce nails and azz wiping…bad combination)

[jenndudess1]

@mrs_teapot wrote:

@jenndudess1 wrote:

Yup. Ive got an addiction to boots. Ankel boots, knee length boots, Flats, heels, 3,1/4 lenghtns.
62 pairs of boots and I think I only regularly wear 2 pairs :?

This made me laugh jenn… how many times do I proclaim I have nothing to wear…. and upstairs there are four wardrobes full of my clothes :D

ssshhhhhh…four wardrobes full of NOTHING TO WEAR :lol:
Dont ever say you have a wardrobe full of clothes, cos then you have no excuse to go out and buy new cloths. 8) :lol: :lol:

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