The two of them know each other. We all went to school togheter and live in the same area.
No major flirting in the sence were she was leading him on. It was just the usual banter between friends. He was boasting about some girl he had been with and we all (girl group) were slagging him about him living in a fantacy world. He constantly brags about how he is this stud in the bedroom, but yet girls that he has been with often talk of his poor preformance.
He had spent the previous 20 minutes braggin about how he can have any girl he wants.
Now to be honest, he is verry handsome, and makes for some verry nice eye candy.
He doesnt apear to have any trouble picking up girls.
My (girl) friend also is quite attractive looking and is verry much the “sought after” girl in the town.
Did she question her own sexual behavour when called a slut?
nope. She has nothing to be ashamed off.
The spark the fuled the fire was when he called her a slut.
He had spent about 10 minutes or so near the end of the night trying to convince her to go home with him and seemed to take the rejection ok.
It was only when he seen her at the bar chatting with another bloke that he shouted across the pub and called her a slut.
To be honest the verry first reaction from everybody was to laugh. We thought it was a case of the pot calling the kettal black if you get my drift.
But it got verry nasty when he repeated it a few more times along with some other vile disgusting words.
My (girl) friends argument was why was it ok for him to sit and brag about his many conquests and for him to be shown as a stud,
but yet because she had slept with a handfull of men she was branded a vile disgusting slut???
Now I dont know if from a female perspective the word slut is taken with more salt to the wound and is more offensive than what it would be from a male perspective.?
We (the girls) found it extreamly ignorant and even a little amused that he, being more sexualy active and vocal about his conquests would brand my mate a slut when she would be no were near his level of sexual behaviour.
He had sat in her company for almost 3 hours with no indication that she was intrested in him. In fact, he had shown verry little intrest in her till near the end of the night.
Then, when after failing to get her to take him home, and apon seeing her chatting up a bloke at the bar he some how saw it fit to call her a slut.
If im going to be honest, I was more amused and annoyed at the reaction to other men in the pub whom hardly knew this girl.
They made there opinion of this girl based on one single word from a drunked rejected fool.
I was more surprised at the effect the word “Slut” had on the whole situation and wonderd what it is that makes blokes run a mile from a “”slut”….but when girls know about a bloke with many many conquests…..it would not dammage there opinion of this so called “stud” or “Bedroom Hero”.
It was more of a couriosty question than a male bashing question :wink: