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There is always a teaspoon at the bottom of the bowl!

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peace

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Nice Pic :)

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@gazlan wrote:

Has thin flounced off ?

Looks like Cosy hit a nerve. :lol:

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Yeah congrats I just dont know what for ?

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@jen_jen wrote:

@taffyfish wrote:

I thought the whole idea of a forum was to get everyones different opinions etc about each topic thats posted on here.

Why do some people use insults?? Very childish in my opinion.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion surely…we are not always going to agree with each other but i respect everyone elses point of view…even if i think they are wrong!! LOL.
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Back on topic (cos I’m scared of Kenty :lol: )

Someone who is confident in their opinion can express it and feel no need to defend it – explain it yes, but not defend – and isn’t bothered what others think of it. Someone in this position also finds it easy to listen to and consider alternative opinions, using them to test their own opinion and see whether it is still valid for them or needs some consideration. This requires emotional intelligence, and such a person can adapt their opinion to new learnings without feeling the need to defend themselves but seeing it as personal growth.

Someone who is not confident in their opinion or is of lower emotional intelligence sees every opinion that differs from their own as a threat, attacking the differing opinion before theirs is questioned so that they don’t have to defend it. This attack often takes the form of insulting, belittling, deriding and using bad language. What this person cannot see is that once they have done this any argument they may have had has been lost, along with any respect that others might have had for them.

Alternatively they could just be arrogant, self-centred opinionated so-and-so’s who always think they are right and everyone else is wrong. :lol:

Fck me you dont half go on .

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@best man wrote:

This is re; the amy winehouse thing
so how would you feel if say,you got a lad random name lets say james i dunno?
and he was a hairdresser,lived with his bf
took drugs would you still love him?
or you could be a mum your daughters a lez?
what do you do?
i always turn to thin to these questions
he knows evrything
whats your take thin,im not saying you know
but it would confuse me?

what a plank you are!

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Welcome Sapper.

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Sorry to hear born can’t make it but hope it still goes ahead as I’ve made arrangements so I can attend and would still love to meet all you lovely people. Perhaps you could post on here Jadey if it’s still going ahead. Thanks

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Or when you have to dig up your own old thread to be top of the boards :lol:

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