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Sorry that i brought up Mizzy in this thread,i shouldent have.I in no way mean to take anything away from nems,brave decision to share her depression.Have to say i was so glad she did share,i understand nems better and she sounds like she is coping very well.Evrything i have sed to nems,is ment to let her know she is not on her own,i for one just understand her.I understand clinical depression.Gladens my heart that she has made some big decisions and turned her life around.That is very hard to do.Good on her.Linda and i are just fine.People have little bumps but get over them.
Well done on the sheer perseverance,and effert you have put in to batteling your depression Nems.That takes guts!
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Jamie I do agree. I never had issues with you ever and was unaware of them till you really surfaced with it.. I not ever judged you or do today. As you know I often say we all not perfect. I am happy for you. Keep it up. Never let it bring you down. Think of those grandchildren or child who needs you in their life. You are a symbol that helps lead their life to what future holds. As I say to anyone in my real life out of Jc..you need listening ear..need me..just pick up phone and call. I do now when off from work, check in make sure clients ok..when on holiday as well.. I know what it is to be all alone as well, abused mentally..emotionally physically. Last time 11 years ago..I was working in the field as well then. Helping others..they helped me too. Together we found our strengths..most likely why got in the field because I was in same situation. Related to them.
Funny having a conversation about this earlier directly with another.. laine and I work in same lines but she bit higher up on ladder than me..I stopped as I could not find time to intern more, or go for masters as both parents got ill..I stopped.. but I think our personalities as a helper..worker..dedication to see others pick up move forward bring professionals all rewards look for. Speaking about me..my opinion..
As far as Mizzy..I so so so tried. She frustrate me as she refused those baby steps. You have to really want help to get better. My opinion she not want it, rejected it..laughed at it. I do hope she well after the numerous things she did to drag me down with her. But sadly she made me breach a boundary. I lost it. She too good for me. I could not get handle and grip on it. She attacked my weakness. Held up stronger than me. I realized she made me feel weak, low..dragged me down to her level..and that is when I had to climb back up. Remember whom I am. What I do..and why in first place..will never ever let some one take punches at me again when I am not looking..
Yeah linda,on looking back that post wasent all that helpfull was it.Sorry about that.
I dont understand why theres not more breading laws.I mean there breading dogs to suffer and die as far as i can see with pugs,not all but a lot.
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Well Mooosey to be honest as well I too know several who deal with it daily as well. But never realized the true impact of depression that reach all, at any age, and the many who coping skills are at a loss with that feeling, in which anxiety triggers allowing no room to listen or get help. Refusal. This sadly includes the very young truly not lived yet or know the world or lived as long as we have.
They say children are very observant at early ages, resilient, can cope.. this what I am amazed most at. Those are the many I should have pointed out..I am amazed at..
I do agree we all have some form of depression that knock on our door in journeys of life. Some can manage and resolve it over period of time. There are others who can’t release it, draws them low..even in chemical hormone imbalances situations. Out of there control as not aware.
So again I am happy that this is a good thing..happy thing to read about for another in this area.. I hope others too will use it as an example for life..that all good things can happen, will happen..takes time.. recognizing your personal needs for you we some times forget we too need help..
Folk like mizzy you mean Linda?So depressed they kick against the world and its sister and drinks like a fish.Trying anything to fill there head with anything other than what there dealing with.
I agree with what you say linda about you and i,lets not return to old ways.There is hope for us all.
have to say its great that so many are posting.Good to see some of my friends posting in here😃Mooosey,Kenty,laine,soph.Great posters and very suportive.
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Exactly Mooosey.And the Bam pot who took him on a job with him,should never have done that.He wouldent tell the police because he thought he like him had gotten away.Makes me so bloody angry.He was just a compleate and utter idiot.As for the man driving the car who pissed off as soon as he heard gunshots,id love five minuts with him.
I thought about this, should i share or not?
I have been diagnosed with severe depression. I had post natal depression that wasnt diagnosed until my daughter was 7, beat that, moved on. My dad died in jan, id not seen him for years, i split with my husband in may and tbh i nearly fell apart.
Im on anti depressants, arranging CBT, surrounding myself with good people, reconnecting with my mum, getting on well with my ex, my daughter is doing great and i now have the love of a truly good man.
Ive been signed off work, i struggle pretty much daily even just to stay awake, eat and shower. Its tough.
Through all this though, ive discovered im worth something, that i matter and you know what? Im starting to love me.
Not everyone that has depression is a sad case.
No one is a sad case.I have fought depression for thirty od years.I too after my last chiled had depression,that let run on for three years.Iv been on meds for about thirty years.I am not sad because,i battle it evry day.Evry one i know who has depression,battles it evry day.As i get older the depression burns itself out a little.I dont suffer half the anxiety,that i did.Im not seven stone.running around withought thinking of eating.I dont worry so much.Before the menopuase i went stone mad with drinking and after.Im loving my age now,its the best i have felt for years.You sound like you have got to the point where your coping.Well done to you.I like to hear how the littl one is doing,Glad shes doing well.I am so glad you have found someone who is making you happy.You do matter and your very important always remember that.Better times ahead of you Nems.x
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Ofcorse there blame with the robers.What im saying is Mrtin is a murderer.
Oh he is a cold blooded murderer though.He sed the next one to come in to my house i will kill them.He killed one and nearly killed another.
Evryone has a right to protect there home,thats a given.Its not a given to kill them though.
He should have warned them,he sed he would do exactley the same again,hes proud of his actions.He was justly covicted of murder.No way should it have been comuted to man slaughter.He never phoned the police,he knew he hit them,told the police a pack of lies.Evryone is entitled to there opinion we just dont see eye to eye on this.
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I have mixed feelings on this.
Yes, its tragic that a young lad died. There are other things that Tony Martin could have done but, and this is where i struggle, if that young lad wasnt doing what he did he would be alive, no?
Im not condoning Mr Martin, he killed someone but i dont think it was murder on his mind, and even if it was, its not like he targeted an innocent victim, is it? He didnt go out into the street and start shooting, he shot an intruder.
I dont care that the young lad was a traveller, his roots and lifestyle is irrelevant, he was an intruder targeting a specific house.
Martin was protecting what was his.
Did you see the documentry on it Nems.You cant tell me he dident have murder on his mind.Any one with an ounce of sencewould understand that.
