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I think yes,they would be very depressed and that depression due to the circumstanses would be considerd mental illnes.I think they would be put on medication to help them deal with the worry and stress.circumstansual depression if sever enough would cause black depression that would need medication,i would think anyways.Just my vew.
I first got tretaed for mental illnes at 17.Look rudeboy i have explaned all im going to about my personal circumstances,sorry if you cant grasp what im saying.More often than not alcoholizum is a symptem of something bigger,often mental illness.You have your vew and i understand where your comming from,i respect where you are with your thoughts on the matter.
When you come in here,its been my experience you leave your dignity at the door.
The personal slaggings iv had.I give as good as i get athough i just dont have the energy for it anymore.Most of the time i ignore it.Change is a great thing.Some people will never change,they just havent got the insight and grace to admit to themselvs they are wrong.Thats fine for them,in the mean time for me life is to short,to give them my time.While i am getting peace of mind and thriving more evry day.There still stuck in the same old groove,like a broken record ,playing over and over.
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I dont want to talk to cozy though.Im in a procarias position myself in my recovery.I need to consintrate on myself before i can be any good to anyone.I dont need to start the same cycle with cosy,as i sed before many times i have forgiven cosy for the vile abuse he has given me.I dont need that,its just not good for me just now.I wish cosy the very best.Please understand and let this be the end of it.
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My experience of mental illness would be tottaly alian to anyone who hasent sufferd from it.How much i needed and was glad of psychiatrists and psychologists to diognose and help me.
Mental illnes is no joke.When i first had a break down,four years it took me to function with any kind of normality.All the while having to look after my familey.Hospitalized at one point.So terified of loosing my kids.The fear is real,the paranoia is real,the anxiety is real,the hypochondria is real.
Getting diognosed takes years,getting the right ballance of medication takes years.You dont just walk in to the gp and say your depressed.My diognoses was a long process.
These drs study for years and years to get to become a dr to have the knowledge to be abel to help.They are specialists.There whole life is dedicated to the practice.
Evry 90 minuts in the uk someone takes there own life because of depression.Like the bodey the mind hase many illnesses,depression whether your 7 or 70 is a very real thing,whether its mild or sever or sircumstancial its all very real.
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Linda please stop talking about my past.Thats up to me and so is my relationship with cosy.What i do on my recovery is my busines until i tell it.I know cosy very well and have done for a long time.My relationship with Mizzy is the same.I know her and i deal with her how i see fit.
Look Mizzy,heres the truth.
When you opend your room,i could see trouble comming a mile away.Thats why i dident want anything to do with it.Non the less i was draged in to it anyways.
I would have loved it if you had did well.You dident though.No integrity at all,you have no idea how to run a chat room.
Your bright enough to do it,nice enough to do it.You havent though.
The reson for that is alcohol.You would need to be off drink for at least a year toget back to yourself.You dont want that though because your on a mission to self destruct.
You cant blame evryone els for what you do.I had a good idea that morg hadent hacked me,that you ha gave him the information when you were drunk.Admit it,you trusted the wrong people.Dont blame me for what you do,i did not tell anyone that you were opening a room,you did that.You have came in here slatering evryone,trolling people,told lies,all because your room has been slow or because people have left.
You cant fool evryone mizzy and certenly not yourself.Your chat site is what you make it and what you are.Your not ready to do a chat sight,you need to get sober.That starts with baby steps and that takes hardwork,unless your ready to do that,you willbe a mess.Troll me and tell as much lies about me you like,but that wont get you sober,and thats what where you need to be.
I wish you good luck with that because thats not easy.
I hope things improve for you Echo but would question whether depression is a mental illness or a natural state of affairs to a finite existence. Society decrees in what is perceived to be a normal life for the first 15-22 years of life we attend educational establishments normally learning material that has no relevance in the real world unless your course/degree is tailor made to a specific job. Then society demands for the next 45 years we all work in jobs which can be underpaid, mundane whilst paying extortionate prices for piles of bricks and mortar juggling obscene charges/bills in tax /energy companies etc. On top of that we all have to negotiate the daily risks of crime being stabbed/ robbed which have been alluded to on the other thread, responsibilities entailed with children/relatives etc
At the age of 65 or thereabouts society allows us to get off the rat race wheel of work with a persons best years behind them, with using a median average of life expectancy, less than 15 years left before oblivion( unless you are religious) which I’m not. Even then many of these years are likely to be dogged by ill health, suffering and possibly poverty issues as many pensioners are unable to survive on the meagre pensions paid out. The blueprint is hardly conducive to being cheerful is it?
0-16/22 years of age = learning pointless information in a flawed curriculum
22-65 years= rat race of in many cases awful futile job roles in order to be a valuable contributor to society
65 to a likely age of around 80= deteriorating health, mobility issues
80 or when the grim reaper calls= death with everything you were or are at time of death gone forever into oblivion with your corpse either incinerated or left to rot underground eaten by worms
I dont see how anyone being depressed by that set of events is mentally ill, infact I’d say it was a natural reaction to a finite existence with no discernible purpose other than satisfying the whims of each persons own conscious state during the few years we are alive.
Wow, what a response to someone saying they’re depressed. Firstly, thanks for the nihilistic and hopeless outlook on life. Secondly, depression (clinical depression as is being referenced on this thread) is not about feeling negative or hopeless at ones life situation (or the pointlessness of life in general), or going through ‘tough times’ as we all inevitably do experience at multiple points in our lives, but it is a chemical imbalance, an actual illness. It does not matter how positive or ‘upbeat’ someone is (and there are plenty of ways to be positive and look at life differently to how you clearly do) clinical depression means you simply feel dark, anxious and utterly hopeless to the point of despair. It is a dark foreboding blanket that covers everything and will not let up. People suffer with it to differing degrees, thankfully I’ve never had the experience (other than maybe brought on during comedowns from certain drugs), but I can relate to it and I’m sure it’s sheer hell. As for life being as futile as you point out, that is why people turn to religion, and want a hope for the future. You can mock them, or you can find your own way to cope with reality. However, when it comes to working 9-5 jobs for menial pay, that is a choice we all make. Many decide they don’t want that and start a business or find some other way to become successful in life. I never thought much of academia either, I will agree on the point that academic education is woefully outdated and also that particularly in recent times, further education or degrees are no longer a sufficient differentiation in the workplace, and do not guarantee a job or that you won’t struggle. Students leave university in debt and some never really get to the point they’re free and can save for retirement. But again, this is all a choice. No point moaning about it. Just find your own meaning in life and do the best you can. Be a hero, not a victim.
I do like that post chrome,very well explaned.Thank you.
