Sorry to hear you are upset Moons.
None of us are angels and I am as guilty as the rest of being unfair and a gobshyte at times and you and I have had our moments but do agree that you are being goaded. I have kept my mouth shut now for quite a while apart from calling Kenty and Laine a pair of witches as they were….goading! Maybe harsh especially to Kenty, and I can be a witch myself! (toad turning to follow!) But whether she knows she is doing it……or not…..she does goad. Like someone mentioned on the other thread try not to bite ( I know I did and regretted lowering myself to the bitching level ). After watching 3 chatters being called the raggedy 3 by Laine the other day (and to be fair to the guide in who questioned what this meant) I do feel that Laine uses this apparent abuse to enable her victim status further.
I used to iggy on sight, then decided as an adult I could be in a room and say nothing to those I didnt wish to converse with…..then learnt I couldn’t when pushed!! Try not ta take it to heart Moons! It’s someone with their own issues, like we all do…..making themselves known!
Be Happy hun! enjoy the chatters that you get on with and try to ignore the ones that feel the need to bring you down for their own gain!