I was trawling in the arts page for the Eliot writing. I know it’s in your poetry forum as well.
I hate the nastiness on here between you and nem, especially when i get mentioned, but there’s nothing I can do to sop it. I just have to put up with it.
The reason I say this, rather than just keep my big gob shut (and perhaps I should have done just that), is that when trawling I came across the poems nem wrote, as well as the poems you wrote, and they are good. The nastiness between you both is killing what could have been a good development here.
I also came across one of my posts to you, which fits here as much as it did in the OP.
You seem to have a very sharp mind, and a sharp tongue which can sting.
You’ve helped me a lot with your poetry, and your attitudes to poetry, so this advice is purely well-meant.
I have no idea whether you are the cause of the anger with some of these people, or whether you’re merely responding to their cruelty…really no idea…and in the end, it’s not interesting who is the ultimate cause.
I do know that once you answer them with cruelty, and provoke them to greater cruelty, then a descent into hell takes place. It’s you as well as they who descend.
In Dante’s Inferno, one of the terrifying images is of a man locked in a cell, while another is behind him holding his shoulders and eating his brains. The horror in the victim’s eyes is matched by the Satanic glee of the assailant. A truly terrifying picture of what can happen to us.
I’m firmly of the belief that Hell exists here, among us, and not in any mythical place below.
So, please, don’t become the assailant or the victim. Don’t respond to provocations, certainly not with personal cruelty.
There are better, much better ways, of dealing with these boards, and with the people on them, than by making yourself (and them) inhuman and in the end miserable.
You have your poetry. Think about it. It’s up to you in the end, but even if you attack – eventually – think again about what I said xx.
Firstly in regards to the Mexican, her comments are always consistent. i.e more digs and more crap probably, only ever one objective, to ignore everything said and just go for my ‘jugular’ which she could never find since she cannot even find her spanner although i have told her several times its in the dish washer.
All I will say is that it was personal between me and the person you speak of. Not about some bloke although he enjoys making it out it was and I am supposed to automatically hate any woman who speaks to him. I have never been nasty to F53 ever as I like her and she is one of his ‘women’. I was also ok to Bloss too, shared me soup recipe with her and next minute she was on the boards calling me a chav etc. He speaks to lynne, I like her too, I really do not care about who his ‘women’ are.
But I am done with all this. I leave soon to get on a plane. ‘Real’ life is out there waiting for us.
Everyone gets stick in JC.
I am done with retaliating to nems trolling n the rooms and we all know she does it bla bla bla, I am done with defending myself.
So I am calling a truce. Nems I wish you well with your life.
Bloss I wish you well too. Tracy – I am not fussed you called me a ‘suicidal mess’ etc I hope you well too as I am basically a really kind hearted person.
No point me going in jc chatrooms anymore, I want to be myself and I cant because like you lot I am sick to death of seeing those fcking terrible pictures that dont even represent what i really look like.
He wanted to humiliate me and he did, he wanted my forgiveness and I couldnt give it to him. He was never really honest with me, I do not hate the women in his ‘harem’ I just hope that they will all be ok when they say ‘no’ to him.
Since its my thread, here is a poem
Just sometimes
Some things are said in anger
Some things are said in truth
Some people lie and lie and lie
Even when you have the proof
Some say that you are useless
Some say that you are weak
Some say so many things
You wish they would not speak
Some say that you are crazy
Some wish you would break down
Those people also miss you
When you are not around
So now what is the answer?
If you really are no good?
Why do they keep coming back?
I have never understood.
They can strip you of your beauty
They can strip you of your smile
They can tell you that you’re worthless
And should just be on the scrap pile
But after you have cried those tears
You remember all words spoken
Remember that you may feel pain
But they might too be broken.
And you might underestimate them, hurt them, then hate them because for once you got it all totally wrong.
Fights, abuse and retaliations have gone way way too far in JC….it will never stop unless the site closes down and you don’t have any other contact with those people anywhere else on the net
Ms K, I like most of your comments on this thread, but let me take issue with this one.
The abuse and fights haven’t changed since we first came to this site many aeons ago. The slanders and gossip have changed in their targets, but only in their targets. Only recently, I’ve been called everything from a wife-beater to an adult baby wanting his crap cleaned off his nappy(! – not sure whether to laugh or be sick on that one), but worse things were said about people when i first came here (I stopped being a reg f3 because it was so nasty). The fights have been constant, and even if you didn’t come here to fight you were forced into it – from my memory, you gave at least as good as you got.
Throughout my time here, some men were trying to get the women on private cams to reveal their charms, and some women were more than happy to oblige (consenting adults). Their photos were then handed round and posted, to the intense embarrassment of many, forcing a number off. Names and addresses were posted, naturally heightening the anxiety of the targets. You put up with it and learned to handle it, or you just decided that the site was a write-off and left – the sane ones left, that is.
But it’s nothing to do with this site in particular. I found other sites just as bad – or intensely boring. The abuse – especially the photos and the dangerous posting of names and addresses – has been so bad that it’s been made illegal – it’s a national problem, whatever the social network (tweeting and sexting are the current faves, aren’t they?)
So calling for the site to be closed down is not going to help. If things are that bad, you connect privately with your friends and leave the site – or go invisible in the chatrooms.
echo told me you were a disgusting pervert who wanted to be breastfed like a baby,
and I swear that on my kids lives.
defend her all you like, she cannot keep secrets and she plays everyone and she goes in everyones pms telling everyone about everyone.
I just don’t get why you would want to take your top off and chat to someone….do some really think the sleaze bag telling you you look amazing is telling the truth?…if he thought you were so fking amazing he would chat to you in a dark room!!
well echos sister went to her funeral
gosh you are focusing on one topless picture
echo died she is dead
her sister went on patchat
poor echo dead as dead can be
lie about dying but omg flash your boobie woobies and that is the issue?
ok she flashed her boobies and her hairy moo and THEN lied about having cancer and dying?
Police will take action as will I if this HARRASSMENT continues.
Oh, has she posted up your home address? has she been found hiding in your bushes?
May I remind you that my home address was posted in JC AND my daughters address and nothing was done about it.
You say she is ‘stalking’ you, she may have posted a few memes of you, pictures that you have sent out to people, pictures that were posted on the JC boards for literally anyone to save and keep.
Such drama.
You are just trying to capitalise on the fact that badder is not very popular in JC. So everyone yet again runs to your defence?
Pictures of me topless looking like a fat drunk pig were posted up yet you are ‘best mates’ with the man who took them of me and shared them LOL
You are joke, you have zero credibility at all, even less than i do.
thought you knew better mizzy.. im disappointed, were you mocking me too?
people who live in glass houses etc eh?
i dont smoke i certainly dont drink, i dont lie about my health.
abused people go one of two ways, they either think the world owes them and take their hatred out on everything and everyone, ( its the only way to make themselves feel better, to see others suffer). or they go down the route of i survived and i’ll celebrate life each and every moment.
life is way too short for the patheticism that goes on with the abuse and trolling.
its like picking at a scab, or self harming, because that is what abusing others is really a type of self harm, its shows the abuser up for what they are not their target. and needless to say there is no level too low for them to stoop.
i think at our ages (she says tongue in cheek because of the childishness), weve all seen people die. both my parents within months of each other two different cancers, my first grandchild, and how i felt “I” failed because i couldnt stop my daughters pain. being battered and bruised, broken bones, emotional and psychological abuse that never goes away. rape, buggery, being lied to, cheated on, it all happens to more people than you know walk a mile in someone elses shoes before you strt he pathetic abuse, one day it might be you
you’re only a victim if you choose to be, survivor is far better!
I would never mock you. You don’t make up lies to get attention. I have respect for you, I also like you.
I will not apologise, I am in the right and I do not like people who lie about things as serious as this is. It is disgusting.
There is no reason for you to take any of what I have typed personally Laine as none of what I have typed was directed at you. I do not ‘misfire’. I am not ‘immature’ I am ‘angry’ and it has nothing to do with some silly chat man who thinks he is top banana in a silly chatroom. Its about someone lying about such an awful thing and everyone being ‘ok’ with it.
Makes me sick.
Anyway my nose hurts now from all the typing.
I have every right to be disgusted by her. I will not be told I am wrong, or immature, or childish. I am not the one who lied about having cancer am I?
She is.
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