[chowa]

union_jack wrote:

ok but i wont pay nearly a fiver a month to chat i can chat for free elsewhere why would i do that bit of a rip of if you ask me should be free to register if you want to incorporate a charge then charge for other things on the site

A cup or two of coffee costs $5/mo. Why not help someone host something which serves as entertainment or a social service?

To me, $5 isn’t much. I realize for me it’s more on account of the low dollar, but that is ok. There isn’t much one can get for that amount these days. I eat out one time and it costs more.

That being said, i wish I could pay it either monthly or annually as a lump sum..
Also, it would be good if someone couldn’t copy the sequence of letters in your name, that way they couldn’t make one change i.e. Chowa or chowa or CHowa – you get the picture – and troll you.

[chowa]

For me.. it’s about to be finals.. now that some holidays are passed. Then, the Christmas holiday and my kid’s big birthday and the New Year. Then, I suppose.. it will be Trump’s presidency.
For the last month it’s been getting used to the new job. Feeling pretty great about it now.

[chowa]

Playing frisbee in the courtyard with my little guy (5). He really made me run for it ;) Got a good arm – that one ;)

[chowa]

Hi. Welcome to JC. :)

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kent f OBE wrote:

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Kent f OBE. User: JUSTNOTHING asked me to tell you that the video from 29 August 2014 5:48PM doesn’t work. I am relaying the message.

[chowa]

Hi Kent f Ob.
Your post doesn’t show up from August 2014. The video doesn’t exist anymore. Can you please tell me what it was?

Thanks.
Chowa

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I am wondering – did I just miss it or did you each always have a problem with procrastination or did you slowly evolve to procrastinate? I have never been one to procrastinate in ANY AREA of my life before the last year.. as it has steadily increased..

I really don’t think it’s because I’m so busy, but perhaps..

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sceptical guy wrote:

Chowa, I find the trigger is the unhappiness over not doing anything. That has to grow to a particular point where I have to do something. The main thing which held me up was that I was so busy, especially when I had a growing family. Kids take up all your time. What I had to do was to create a time for myself where I could brood on what needed to be done That quiet time was where I gatehrred energy and prioritised what was needed, then planned the time required. Then I stuck to it.

Yeah, that sounds a lit more in depth to what Martin was saying, and I do find this to be what I have been experiencing lately.

Yeah, I have only since your post realized that quiet time is something to be relished.. and when you have rising deadlines in work and/or school.. the best thing you can do is find that quiet time at NON TIRED times. :)

Excellent advise. You are right. This really helps me! Thanks for sharing! :)

I’m also going to be taking a few months off of school to relax and minimize my stress as I work through this procrastination thing.

 

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ChatHostUK wrote:

The only thing that really works for me is being up against a deadline. Then, you have no choice but to get the task done. In fact, my mother calls me ‘last minute Martin’.

Yeah, that really does seem to help me, too. But I also feel quite a bit of anxiety coming up to and working through the deadline.

I’ve always been very confident on what I can and can not do and rarely anxious about capabilities. But lately, with the procrastination, I make things that should be mediocre a little more large.

Then, again, I am working my way out of a “last minute” nickname myself.. ;) haha. Thanks for sharing ;)

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Is there some reason that you wouldn’t be?

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