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@~*Lucky*~ wrote:
Im baffled as to what either of us done that would warrant the site being closed down. Appreciate that I can be a bit of a gobshyte at times but nothing wrong in voicing your opinion and asking questions that others are desperate to know the answers to but too timid to raise!!! Reality is that when the questions were asked, Fasty ran like a bolt of lightening. interesting concept but I guess in a way, the blame could then be associated to us on a v superficial level :P If posters think that though then they really need to dig a little bit deeper :wink:
Oh believe me, some posters deffo think it was you and me! :D
@rubyred wrote:
@chocolate wrote:
@rubyred wrote:
@rubyred wrote:
actually… hhhm (should i even say this..)
give me a minute.
okay. beleive it or not IF i was in the postition to read Pms,, i would NOT. in fact i would never even consider it, be like opening someones Diary. and id be too scared that i opened a pandoras box about myself. I have personal reasons for believing secrets are secrets. and not just on the internet. I once posted a pm i had recieved on here as it looked like I was being the big bad wolf, where in reality I was more a Goldilocks.
Other folks private thoughts are theirs. and i have discussed medical things with someone before. seeking advice from a medical and emotional perspective.
would I read pms.. ??
NO WAY.
I wasnt saying its right, infact I know morally its wrong…However, the curiosity would kill me!
As the saying goes, curiosity killed the cat! Id have to read them, id just have to.
Anyway whats done is done, the main thing is we are getting our board back :D
fair do’s vee and I admire your honesty.. x nae bother.
I have never denied reading pms on GC…infact if you look on PATS CHAT, ive posted a few times about the time I read the pms.
Anyway, im just too nosey, what can I say?
@~*Lucky*~ wrote:
I think that at one stage or another we all guessed that pm’s were being read. I for one dont have anything to hide and wouldnt say anything in pm that I wouldnt say elsewhere. Does that make it right??? Absolutely not.
I cannot abide liars, and for me, this is the issue here. When challenged Fasty denied that he done this and was annoyed that these accusations were made. Pats has also read pm’s although said that it was too much hassle and too technical to do?!? I do believe that Sunny and Di didnt.
Anyway, it is what it is and i guess theres no point in us all getting our knickers in a twist over an internet message board. At least its out in the open now. I for one have lost any respect I had for fasty and certainly didnt like his underhand approach to managing the boards lately. def a changed person from who he was a few years ago, and thats a pity.
in my opinion, the only reason he bailed from the boards was because his cover was about to be blown and a few home truths were about to be revealed. What a little furry cat to not stay and fight your corner. Love how it is now manipulated to make him look the good guy though lol. I’m sure none of us will receive an apology either. For the later part I wasnt on the site out of enjoyment but more a bad habit and some disjointed sense of loyalty. Same the same wasnt applied from the owners to the users really.
I’m sure Fasty is sitting back, watching and laughing. He always did like a good old rant and encouraged everyone to particpate. He’s done a grand job this time huh :roll: Shame really cos it used to be a good place to unwind and have a laugh.
Lucks, this is an excellent post!
Did you know that I heard through the grape vine, that you and I are to blame for fastcars shutting the site down? Personally? I cant see it, but it could be true?
Regards reading pms…..I read a few on GC, but it was at the end, I had to find a way to get into the accounts by changing passwords etc….It wasnt just there in front of me…Ive admitted numerous times to reading the pms, it was never a secret. Would I do it again? Yes probably :oops:
Anyway, I dont feel were owed an apology, but I do agree those are the very reasons the site was temporarily shut down, and now that its out in the open, its gonna reopen.
Thing is we knew the site would open again, if it had closed we would have all been getting a 403 error….I knew it was a matter of time..
Anyway, will you be going back to PATS CHAT? I hope so, it just wont be the same without you, if im not banned that is!
Lucks, do you have a furry cat?
@rubyred wrote:
@rubyred wrote:
actually… hhhm (should i even say this..)
give me a minute.
okay. beleive it or not IF i was in the postition to read Pms,, i would NOT. in fact i would never even consider it, be like opening someones Diary. and id be too scared that i opened a pandoras box about myself. I have personal reasons for believing secrets are secrets. and not just on the internet. I once posted a pm i had recieved on here as it looked like I was being the big bad wolf, where in reality I was more a Goldilocks.
Other folks private thoughts are theirs. and i have discussed medical things with someone before. seeking advice from a medical and emotional perspective.
would I read pms.. ??
NO WAY.
I wasnt saying its right, infact I know morally its wrong…However, the curiosity would kill me!
As the saying goes, curiosity killed the cat! Id have to read them, id just have to.
Anyway whats done is done, the main thing is we are getting our board back :D
@minim wrote:
Well, I was told by someone who should know that people were reading PMs on that other there site. And making notes about people for some unexplicable reason! Nowt as queer as folks. Just because some moderators like Sunny were squeaky clean with high morals doesn’t mean that applies to everyone else on that site.
But, then if you know what is going on, you just watch what you say.
I have been a member of this site for ages and ages, in fact I don’t think i’ve logged out in years, so god knows what my password is! I used both sites, will continue to use this site and any others I choose to. Why do some people think its unacceptable to use more than one message board or chat room? Variety is the spice of life.
Mims…..are you saying, that if you were admin on a site where pms were flying around left right and center, and you could read them that you wouldnt? honestly?
I know its wrong, pms are private, but fu ck me, maybe im just too nosey, id have read the pms, infact I did on another site..
@terry wrote:
@rainbowbrite wrote:
@terry wrote:
@rainbowbrite wrote:
Promise not to read my PM’s and yeah i’ll give you my backing. No wait.. you’re the only one who PM’s me.
Problem :-k
Backing for what? :-s
I just think fastcars should step down and do us all a favour.
You caretaking the site you plank! *clips round ear* I dunno! :roll: :lol:
There’s more chance of you and I getting married than me “caretaking” that site. :roll:
Shut up Tel…..You used to have all the time in the world for PATS CHAT! What ever changed? honestly!
What a bunch of crap!
Is everyone overlooking the fact I made this morning and Lucy made yesterday?
There isnt one person on these boards that could stay away from other members inbox given the opportunity to read their pms…
I was admin on a forum once, and I enjoyed reading pms :D
:oops:
Anyway, the good news is, PATS CHAT will be open again for business in the very near future….Thank God too, cos these smileys suck!!!!!!!!
Would it be wrong for me to say:
………..and everyone died? :lol:
@prettypink wrote:
Ello me darling – love the thread heading lol! yep think most heard little snippets about pms being read but it never went any further. Think it was before Christmas, people were saying they were missing stuff.
So THIN, that wasant the reason the site shut :wink:
I think it is a very big reason it shut…..I mean fastcars denied for years reading the pms, and denied deleting peoples pms, so when PATS said she was blowing the whistle he shut it down before she could tell, he obviously didnt want anyone knowing he was reading every single pm that came in there…..Oh well.
btw, did you miss me pip? :D
