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‘you could see the pleasure in her eyes as it was happening’

with the greatest respect and playing devils advocate..how do we know this was the look that was in her eyes at the time???

bit like chinese whispers i guess ……hope that makes sense

xxxx xxxx

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doa …..i dont know how to react to your latest post….perhaps the right way is to not react at all…….

This forum i beleive is to interact with people….however you insist on making waves and causing unpleasantness……..hmmmmm what are you really feelin doa……attack is now, and will always be, the best form of defence.

Tommy i kind have put you to one side before……..can i ask if this is a normal freindly banter or is some of the surface animosity real……do you 2 actually know each other ??

forgive my asking its just i dot understand the relationship (if any) between you 2……..
absolutely nothing i can do about it but just trying to understand so i keep any uneccesary comments to myself…….

doa this is a difficult situation you are in but you didnt answer whether or not you have discussed with your mum why she left and she wasnt there for you……..i believe that if you havent already done this then this has to be the way forward…it still doesnt mean you have to pay anything towards your mums keep i do think that is totally unfair…..what concerns me more is your apparent anger and bitterness……….not good to carry round

now you quite justifiably can come back and tell me its your business but you did post this….and it is now in the public forum……dont take your anger and frustration or bitterness out on other people its not their fault you are in this postition

you will be relieved to know that i am finishing now…..just to say although for variious reasons i didnt always have my mum………i still would like just 5 more minutes with her to give her a hug ……..whatever she didnt do through no fault of her own she was and still is my mum xxxx

still sendin hugssss perhaps if you had had a few more doa…i wouldnt be writing this…..

Tommy? hugsss to you too hun ……i wish you well

xxxxx

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Tempty you are an abslute star !!!! i would love one but have no idea what……..so just surprise me lol

huggssssss tempty xxx

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Here’s a couple more folks xx

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

xxxxx

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i miss the kids programmes too me kids grew up wiv lol….sesame street wiv cookie monster lol……..play school would ya beleive oooooooooooooo an rainbow pml…….

xxxx

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dya know wat doa i dont know if you are contraversial or just angry ………

there are many people in the this life who have not had it at all easy .- and no i aint led a charmed life ……..but still a few of them make it through with out being angry or bitter n twisted………and no doa i am not some do gooder………..being nice doesnt cost anything…..

The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

hugss anyway xxx

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do ya know wot catz, this is without doubt the most difficult form of communication as far as expressing or using emotions………

thinks can so often be taken the way its not meant to be………texting is another form of communication that can be misconstrude…….

i got an idea bring a bottle and some nibbles and we will all have a party and talk to each other pml

catz seriously hun, it can be difficult…..if the person concerned i sso shallow or unfeeling that they will not accept an explanation the they are not worth bothering with……i really do avoid spending time with people i dislike cos although they are few and far between in my life i would much rather spend it with people i like xxxx

take care xxx

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Pmsl James ur all heart fgs

hugsssssss xxx

xxx xxx

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I didnt know butterfly………..but this made me cry………and it made me cry cos u guys are the best ……….i have found there is a core of very caring very nice people on here…….

butterfly i never has the priviledge but god bless you for touching so many peoples lives

xxxxx

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hey dead on arrival dont know your real name hun xxx i feel for both you and your sister ……..really xxx

there are no words to describe what you feel but i feel one of the most important things to do (if you have not already done it) is to speak to her find out why and maybe build bridges xx speakin as someone who knows absolutely nothin bout ur situation or you mums so difficult to be more helpful

god bless and hugsssssss

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