[Cass_2000]

So essentially jen and pete, you’re both saying if you don’t have trust, you don’t have much of a relationship?

[Cass_2000]

@pete wrote:

@cass_2000 wrote:

@pete wrote:

So if someone was being told by their friends that their partner is a terrible flirt they’re always doing it they could just say “oh thats what they’re like it’s harmless” and not have any doubt

Well yes obv you would get doubt, but what if you believed they mean no harm by it…. Someone once said to me “I have a flirty personality”… you cant change people’s personalities

All i’m saying is if someone says they really love someone else and the other person is affected by the flirting then it shouldn’t be hard to stop.

What if they don’t stop, but you believe they truly love you?

[Cass_2000]

Does not having trust end a relationship? what if you chose to start again, try and rebuild the trust… which is what the post is orginally about really, forgiving and forgetting.

[Cass_2000]

@pete wrote:

So if someone was being told by their friends that their partner is a terrible flirt they’re always doing it they could just say “oh thats what they’re like it’s harmless” and not have any doubt

Well yes obv you would get doubt, but what if you believed they mean no harm by it…. Someone once said to me “I have a flirty personality”… you cant change people’s personalities

[Cass_2000]

@(f)politics? wrote:

ok now here is where i have to disagree, flirting can in a way be quite selfless as people like to be liked and admired so flirting with someone can make that person feel good about themselves as long as it is only that it can be a way of being charming nothing more.

But what if the other person doesn’t agree/like their partner flirting yet they continue to do it after promising not to

[Cass_2000]

@pete wrote:

If you accept that because the other person keeps telling you “it means nothing it’s harmless” I think you’re kidding yourself and I think deep down you know it… (by you i dont mean you i mean a person any person)

That part

[Cass_2000]

I used to think that too, why flirt if you are getting everything you want from a relationship.. but I have to disagree with the other part.

[Cass_2000]

What if you truly believe both have it… I’ve noticed that nowadays it seems “Normal” or more acceptable for people who are in relationships to flirt with others via whatever means… I hear the term “flirting is harmless as long as it never goes anywhere” alot… maybe that’s just how it is these days?

[Cass_2000]

What if its love that makes you forgive… whats that saying, ” You can get through anything if you have love” or something along those lines…

[Cass_2000]

:shock: :shock: I shall never moan about how big mine are again! :shock:

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