@aston wrote:
@cass_2000 wrote:
Not sure where I should post this to!
Anyways, just wondered what all you thought about trust in a relationship… can it be built up again if its been knocked down? Have any of you had to forgive and forget and did it work out? Has it changed any of you in any way ie more cautious about things or made you more easily jealous etc…
Have any of you tried to forgive and work things out but realised it couldn’t happen? If so how long before you realised it was better to “give up”?
Do any of you know your partner/ex is/was unfaithful but simply cant/couldn’t live without them therefore you had to forgive and forget? Does there come a point where you have to say I cant take anymore, its over?
I’ll approach the subject from the perspective of someone who’s been guilty of causing distrust and I have to, the process trying to re-store that trust after an affair, especially, is something of an insurmountable task.
But it must be achievable as I’m sure there is couples out there who have overcome trust issues.