kill them with kindness, once they see they are not hurting you they will move on. i look at it like this. .. im quite a big fan of wwe wrestling, sad i know. but in wrestling you always have a good guy, that you route for, and a bad guuy who you boo, the bad guys in chatrooms are infact giving the good guys more reason for the audience ( lobby pervs), to love them, anyone sat there watching the bullies making digs at you, is on your side. most of them want to stay out of it though because they do not want to get picked on themselves or they realise that its just a waste of energy and giving the bad guys exactly what they want, and also . very much like wwe wrestling it is a pantomime. the people that cope best in chatrooms are people that realise this and dont take it all so seriously.