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Anyone caught pointing a camera in my direction is most likely going to find themself attending A+E coz i hate getting my picture taken
I agree about the Liz Earle Cleanse and Polish, i cant live without it, also her gentle exfoliator and the toner are fab. As for moisteriser, i cant see past Nivea Soft. It is the only thing (apart from clense and polish) that clears up my dry skin.
While i am guilty of the individual greetings (i feel bad if i dont) i have cut down the xxx part, and i am not and was not one for hanging around to do the goodbye bit lol
I don’t know you very well bexy, but you have always struck me as nice. And i think we are all guilty of biting back at the ones we consider idiots in there.
Like i said, i have eventually learned all that, and yes i have a few people from here to have moved from online acquaintance to proper friend because they are still in my life and well, i like them. As for everyone else who has come and gone in all the years i have used this site, well yeah, they have all been deleted or blocked and i dont miss them.
I plan to belong to the independent chat party from now on, i think chatting will be a happier experience if i just adopt a “don’t give a fig” attitude to others attitude :D
No, i dont buy into the whole “family” thing, while there is an old chatter i call mum, that has nothing to do with chat and more to do us as people. I am afraid i also dont buy into half of the “relationships” in there either, there is one exception, and thats the couple who don’t play out their relationship in the chatroom, id like to think they know who they are without naming names.
And without naming names when it comes to the cliquey feeling in chat, that isnt fair and it feels like mud slinging and it makes it sound like i am trying to say im not just as guilty as others, because i am.
As for the everyone just being names of a screen until you get to “know” someone. And for the information you divulge, it must be nice des, that you have never felt like you are being interrogated and asked some questions that are quite personal, as annoying a question as it is, i think it should stop at ASL, without you having to be labelled as anything because you dont actually want to tell people anything. In fact i once refused to give my ASL and it was thrown at me “well how do we know you are really a female if you dont tell us” my reply was how do you know just because i give an ASL?
While i don’t go in as often as i used to, because quite frankly, its not fun anymore. I have learned from my past mistakes. I will no longer let anyone pm with me (except you Lucy) and i wont get dragged into anyones dramas. And yeah, now i just see it as names on a screen. I am not sure how you “prove” yourself to somone on a chatroom, maybe you can let me know how that works Des, but i will continue to chat with those that i can have fun and a giggle with and ignore the rest. Hey it only took me nearly 2 years to work that out, but i got there in the end. So, if you are after a giggle and a laugh, im your girl, if you are wanting attention, sorry you got the wrong person.
I admit the persona i am in chat is probably not completely the real me, Barbie has a bit more confidence than the real woman behind the name, who is actually quite shy.
I think this has been a good thread, no trolling remarks (where was blossom btw?) Everyone has behaved like adults, and there has been no mud slinging because we have all listened to what everyone has had to say (yeah i know lucy, it took me a while for the penny to drop, but thats what im like :p lol).
I feel like i have managed to clear the air with some people through this thread and thats good. Also through some of the comments here, maybe those of us who use chat regularly can all start trying to make it a happier place to play (yeah i know im asking the impossible there are still idiots in there). Maybe it’s time we actually used the ignore buttons and instead of it feeling like a clique or an “in crowd” we can start being friendly to all, give them the benefit of the doubt first. I have made some good friends here and for those people i am grateful. I think it’s time for us to take back the power so that none of us feel pushed out or unwelcome, despite the morons. Also, was Hot Chocolate Stirrer one of the filtered phraes? lmao
Aww i loved Nanny Macfee. I am reading No One Left to Tell by Karen Rose. For anyone who hasnt heard of her, she writes crime fiction, there IS the romantic element, which is the part of the books which are very fomulaic, you know who is going to get together instantly, you just know its a matter of when not if. BUT, ignore that and focus on the thriller element and her books are good.
Ive not long finished a book called Eye for an Eye by Frank Muir, another thriller which was really good, it is about a serial killer who is killing abusive men. Set in my hometown, which is probably why it appealed haha.
Oh i don’t know luce, everyone knows you have turned me :p :D
ok, my bad. I have only ever been myself in there, well a slightly less shy version of myself in there. And i have never played mind games. And for what its worth, i haven’t slagged people off behind their backs either.
