Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
Who is this person who comes in every once in a blue moon hides in the dark and preaches advice..? Don’t tell me my needs, thank you. I am willing and capable to make big decisions on my own.?
So now again third time said PLEASE..don’t you include me. Thank you again.
Are you making a statement or are you asking us to clarify your position?
Either way it does not matter as this thread is not about you. I am sure that we all feel sorry for you because it is clear that you do not appear to know your own mind. You are blatantly sharing your lack of authenticity and autonomy with us.
Being so selfish is not a good thing. Its not about you both, its about Nem. Think about her right now, she needs your support. Forget Mizzy. You really both need to get over her and move on. Nem needs you right now.
Again – Stop being selfish and offer Nem some support. Your petty grievances and jealousies need to be laid to rest, try to assist someone who is clearly asking for understanding and support and for once in your sad life stop talking absolute rubbish.
I hope CBT works for you Nem, research shows that it has assisted many and can be a very useful tool.
Jamief and I worked the issue out about another mentioned. Truth be known I was very hurt and extremely stressed over situation. Made me depressed. Jamief used as example so to speak. It was not to take away from nemesis.
Now stop stirring..please..I think you should seriously consider why you keep bringing Mizzy up in your comments on threads that have absolutely nothing to do with her.
Have you considered counselling?
Nem has been very open about her seeking help from professionals.
I have noticed as have many have, that you do bring up this Mizzy character very often.
I think you need to address your issues and get some closure.
You bring her up such a lot.
I think if you seeked help you could move on and have a happier life.
It is odd and rather obsessional.
I would give the same advice to Jamie as she has also involved Mizzy into this thread when it was really supposed to be all about Nem.
You both need to stop focusing on Mizzy and move on with your lives.
I am sure you are both nice people and want to be there for Nem. But it appears that you both also need to seek closure and put the past behind you.
Focus on Nem and not upon yourselves.
Being so selfish is not a good thing. Its not about you both, its about Nem.
Think about her right now, she needs your support.
Forget Mizzy. You really both need to get over her and move on.
Nem needs you right now.
I totally agree Dodger, but I am allowed to speak. yes it is about Nem ! however, some people use it as a thread to big themselves up and make out they are perfect. Maybe Mizzy shouldnt have been broughtup and I see your point, but she was brought up with the intention of pointing out that ” don’t be so understanding and mindful of everyone unless you back it up ” as in… dont be 2 faced while acting perfect.
Sorry Nem and Dodge, whoever you are…You done good girl…. I’m employing a knitter to make some winter knickers for that remote island you are going to !!! you’ll thank me I promise !!!
Dont be 2 faced while acting perfect? sorry who was two faced whilst acting perfect?
Totally lost now.
Are you saying Nem has been two faced and acting perfect?
Nem from what I have seen has never been two faced or ever tried to act like she was perfect shes always appeared to be very honest.
Please clarify who has been two faced and acted perfect?
I think you missed the point but whatever…
Fact – both Linda and Jamie brought up Mizzy for absolutely no reason other than to be nasty and berate her.
Fact – This is a really heartfelt thread started by Nem and should be about her and her friends offering her support.
Fact – Moosey you will defend those that you are friends with even though in this instance they are both in the wrong for detracting from the actual point of this thread by venting for their own personal reasons because you are a kind and loyal person.
No I did not miss the point.
Now back to Nems – I am sure you will be ok, you have a very wise head and a good heart.
Please lets not make any more comments on this thread that take us further away from what the thread was started for.
Hugs to you Nem.
Instead of insulting other chatters lets now focus on being there for a chatter that we all like.
Love to you nems
I don’t think Jamie tried to hi jack the thread, just point out some home truths to Linda,in fact, I think if anyone has empathy with Nem, its Jamie, what she says is from personal experience, and from a point of compassion. To truly feel empathy and compassion one needs to have experienced the feelings of others.
No need for her to bring up Mizzy.
Seems she’s just using it as an excuse to vent her opinions out of spite.
This thread is NOT about jamie and its NOT about Mizzy, its about Nem.
Shame they cannot keep it at that.
-
This reply was modified 6 years, 2 months ago by Artful Dodger.
However, this “artful Dodger” in posting screwed up what I said.. I was the one who said tried tried tried so hard so with Mizzy..
This thread is about Nems and her struggles. Do not turn it into yet another thread where you make your pathetic little digs at other chatters and use it as a platform for your nastiness.
Nems has been honest open and shared her feelings. There was absolutely no need for you or Jamie to bring up Mizzy at all.
Lets just concentrate on Nems and giving her the support she needs without hijacking this thread yet again to vent your ugly grievances with other chatters.
What is next? You bringing up hugs?
It must have taken a lot of courage for Nems to have brought this up and talked about her issues. Please have more respect and not make it about yourselves and your petty vendettas.
Sorry Nems that others have tried to belittle what was a really sincere thread created by you. Please try to take the good points of what they have said and ignore their efforts to distract readers from the points you have so eloquently made.
On their behalves I apologise. Someone really should.
Take care of you.
1 member liked this post.
Folk like mizzy you mean Linda?So depressed they kick against the world and its sister and drinks like a fish.Trying anything to fill there head with anything other than what there dealing with.
As far as Mizzy..I so so so tried. She frustrate me as she refused those baby steps. You have to really want help to get better. My opinion she not want it, rejected it..laughed at it. I do hope she well after the numerous things she did to drag me down with her. But sadly she made me breach a boundary. I lost it. She too good for me. I could not get handle and grip on it. She attacked my weakness. Held up stronger than me. I realized she made me feel weak, low..dragged me down to her level..and that is when I had to climb back up. Remember whom I am. What I do..and why in first place..will never ever let some one take punches at me again when I am not looking..
Give it a rest ffs.
I hope you feel better soon Nems.
1 member liked this post.
Frankly dodger..I give not a piss of water who you are, pretend to be..back or not.. as far as I am concerned you certainly a nobody in my book..You come and go as please..make comments..disappear..and blow steam out of your arse for attention and stirring a stew pot…. you not need to provide advice as you a fake..with fake name..fake advice and fake opinions.. means nothing. I simply have replied here because you are over cooked not fit for consumption. Therefore I spit you out.
You all dried up meat..
Bye
Lol@blow steam outta your ars for attention.You shoulda put that in funnies lol
maybe you should remember that drunk you and sober you are two very different people jamie? and learn to have some respect for both parts of you? but also remember how fucking stupid illiterate you are and how much you can fuck people over just because you are so fucking stupid you just dont know who is good and who is not.
You just want to be liked and you will throw all your friends under the bus.
You are pathetic
Frankly dodger..I give not a piss of water who you are, pretend to be..back or not.. as far as I am concerned you certainly a nobody in my book..You come and go as please..make comments..disappear..and blow steam out of your arse for attention and stirring a stew pot…. you not need to provide advice as you a fake..with fake name..fake advice and fake opinions.. means nothing. I simply have replied here because you are over cooked not fit for consumption. Therefore I spit you out.
You all dried up meat..
Bye
Lol@blow steam outta your ars for attention.You shoulda put that in funnies lol
Lol..u right jamief..x
I had enough today on hellos with numbers..whew I just went off with Dodger comments to me.
Yes I should of put in the funny…
I particular liked my word sentence too..”You not fit for consumption” (to eat) even better..
Oh my will go to confession today..beg forgiveness..and get on knees..hopefully brief..only 2 hail Mary’s, 1 our father in the pews. Windy..bitter cold..rain..snow/alert coming..Pray for me..hate driving in that nasty weather….
wow
two women saying its ok to abuse another women and that is ok?
you have both been documented laughing and lolling over a fellow woman being abused?
Fine
All i have said is in defence of a woman, but women are being so bitchy and abusive?
Linda your mate said some female smelt of urine and you laughed.
Linda proved on the boards you enjoyed the ridicule, you say you are a nice person yet your jealous horrible feelings betray you.
Jamie you say you are a true friend yet when the shit hits the fan you betray them tell everyone their business because you are fed up of the online trolling due to you being their friend but truth is they trolled you just because you are you so you betrayed and screwed over someone you didnt need to.
They still dont like you and whats more they dont trust you. You are so concerned with being liked and accepted you hurt good people.
ive been watching
To all you regulars ;) guess whose back!!!
:)
-
This reply was modified 6 years, 2 months ago by
Now stop stirring..please..
