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Not aimed at you. I respect you.
I take studies with a pinch of salt , studies show that red meat is bad for you on a Monday, good for you on a Tuesday, lack of sleep linked to brain damage on a Wednesday , no link found on a Thursday etc etc. I think people are too quick to throw the mental health label at anything to disguise the fact many issues are nothing to do with mental health but external factors in a fairly cruel world where suffering is inevitable.
You don’t understand what mental illness is. Or what clinical depression is. It’s nothing to do with ‘life events’…
The trouble with ‘drinkers’ and with people who ‘get depressed’ is that they tend to compare themselves to others and generalise. No one can understand anyone else until they have walked in their shoes. But they bleet on and on. Even the drinkers and the mentally ill have the cheek to judge others. As far as I am concerned, treat people as they treat you and do not use your drinking or mental health issues as any excuse to betray other people. If someone tells you something in confidence don’t betray them. its all so very simple. I wont accept excuses of im so depressed and im so drunk. If someone tells you a secret keep it. Anyone who betrays someones confidence is no one who needs any sympathy. If someone gave you the gift of a secret why betray them? why say its ok and then belittle them and make out that they are in the wrong? why then keep going on and on about how they ‘deserved’ you to betray them? WHY IS IT OK TO BETRAY SOMEONE WHO TRUSTED YOU WITH THEIR SECRET? Yeah no one likes a drinker, but there are drinkers and there are drinkers. Not all of us are untrustworthy horrible people who will betray others. If someone tells me a secret I keep it to myself. And I don’t care who hate me trolls me bullies me I would never ever betray them. But that is just me. I am the artful dodger. I would never ever be weak enough to bend to peer group pressure. I would rather be me than beg for people to like me. I would never betray a friend just to fit in.
I just have no respect for weak pathetic people who just want to be liked by people who aren’t even relevant in the first place.
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I tell you what, test her, tell her a big secret you don’t want anyone else to know and ask her not to tell anyone.
Give it 2 months, she will be telling everyone. She will post it all over the boards or in the chatrooms.
Do it.
And she will betray you when she’s sober not drunk. Strangely enough drunk jamie is less brain dead than sober jamie. Drunk Jamie at least tells you how it is to your ‘face’ and is honest. Sober jamie is a nasty two faced back stabbing dishonest arsehole.
Go figure
Are you sober? :)
What are you doing with your life? :)
You are very very judgemental :)
What have you achieved today :)
Are you a fully functioning alkie?
What have you to show for your life?
You compare other drinkers to yourself?
I am the Artful Dodger and I have achieved more in my life than you ever have. Other drinkers are not all like you. You wish that you could compare yourself to other drinkers when in fact, we are not all as tragic as you, going on week/month binges doing nothing for anyone else and crapping all over other people. You have no right to judge or comment on other people. Not all drinkers are like you. You may drink or you may not drink but unfortunately you will always be stupid unproductive and never achieve anything in your life other than having kids that may or may not turn into serial killers or drug addicts. You are very judgemental for a really unattractive illiterate pisshead with no loyalty brain or faith in humanity.
People have told you in confidence asking you specifically NOT to tell others and you have barefaced blurted out secrets as you really have no respect for friendship or loyalty.
At the end of the day moon. Your alcoholism is no excuse for your behaviour. You can judge others and make your assumptions and compare them to yourself but that is wrong.
You try to say that all drinkers are like you
They are not
Drinking is drinking but our basic personality morals and intelligence remain, you have made so many excuses for your behaviour, at the end of the day. You are such a disgusting person sober so i hold no hope for you drunk.
you should never be trusted ever by anyone. I see you as the most disgusting person on the planet
Good luck people!
Look Mizzy,heres the truth.
When you opend your room,i could see trouble comming a mile away.Thats why i dident want anything to do with it.Non the less i was draged in to it anyways.
I would have loved it if you had did well.You dident though.No integrity at all,you have no idea how to run a chat room.
Your bright enough to do it,nice enough to do it.You havent though.
The reson for that is alcohol.You would need to be off drink for at least a year toget back to yourself.You dont want that though because your on a mission to self destruct.
You cant blame evryone els for what you do.I had a good idea that morg hadent hacked me,that you ha gave him the information when you were drunk.Admit it,you trusted the wrong people.Dont blame me for what you do,i did not tell anyone that you were opening a room,you did that.You have came in here slatering evryone,trolling people,told lies,all because your room has been slow or because people have left.
You cant fool evryone mizzy and certenly not yourself.Your chat site is what you make it and what you are.Your not ready to do a chat sight,you need to get sober.That starts with baby steps and that takes hardwork,unless your ready to do that,you willbe a mess.Troll me and tell as much lies about me you like,but that wont get you sober,and thats what where you need to be.
I wish you good luck with that because thats not easy.
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When you opened your room I could see trouble coming a mile away. That’s why I didn’t want anything to do with it. None the less I was dragged in to it anyways.
I would have loved it if you had did well.You didn’t though. No integrity at all, you have no idea how to run a chat room
You’re bright enough to do it, nice enough to do it. You haven’t though.
The reason for that is alcohol.You would need to be off drink for at least a year to get back to yourself. You don’t want that though because your on a mission to self destruct.
You cant blame everyone else for what you do. I had a good idea that morg hadn’t hacked me, that you ha gave him the information when you were drunk. Admit it,you trusted the wrong people. Don’t blame me for what you do, I did not tell anyone that you were opening a room, you did that. You have come in here slating everyone, trolling people, told lies, all because your room has been slow or because people have left.
You can’t fool everyone Mizzy and certainly not yourself. Your chat site is what you make it and what you are. You’re not ready to do a chat site, you need to get sober. That starts with baby steps and that takes hard work, unless your ready to do that, you will be a mess. Troll me and tell as much lies about me you like, but that wont get you sober, and that’s what where you need to be.
I wish you good luck with that because that’s not easy.
You should take your own advice. Moon.
You are not dyslexic, you are just thick.
I am not Mizzy. Guess again.
Jamie.. you and i go back years, we have had some pretty heated discussions, huh? I think we have both been hot headed, typed without thinking but it always came from the heart.
oh h0ney x
shes has slagged you off to anyone who would listen telling everyone you send men pics and you lied about our dad dying and how you are a pathetic twat who sends men pics of herself and lies about dying and says you are a secret drinker with an alcohol problem, shes even shared your pictures in order to sc0re brownie points. They threatened to show hers so she passed yours on without a care for you.
be wise
Did you go on patschat and say you had died and that you were your own sister?
Jamie said you did.
To be honest cosy said you did and so did GE.
Do people who go on patschat lie?
Anyway I am sure you didn’t go on patschat and lie about being your own sister and saying you had died – talk to Jamie about this – shes was the one spreading the rumour.
and ask around.
Ask around. you will find all the evidence you need.
Hate to be the barer of bad news Nem but I’m a mate of cosys like I said and we go on pats chat and Jamie told everyone that you pretended to be your own sister and said you had died.
Jamie has said many many bad things about you behind your back. That is why I saw this thread and her comments and felt compelled to speak out.
And if you don’t believe me ask anyone who goes on patschat.
Its a fact.
Please do get well but do not allow people like Jamie to get to you when you are in your most vulnerable state.
Be careful who you trust. Can you ever really trust someone who is an alcoholic? They are one person one day and a different person the next.
And the worst thing is, she also cannot be trusted for the very fact she cares so much about what other people think. She will betray anyone if she feel it will make her more popular.
She has said awful things about you behind your back.
Trust no one and just look after you.
Cosy is a mate of mine. Jamie has no right to use this thread in order to insult cosy knowing he has no account and cannot defend himself. She’s shown vile cowardly behaviour by doing so.
She is the biggest hypocrite, calling into question his behaviour when she has been the way she has?
How has cosy ever been worse than her?
She conveniently forgets that some of us have been around a very very long time and remember all the bad things she has done.
Her holier than thou attitude and butter wouldn’t melt attitude will not wash with those of us who have been here for the duration.
Address your own disgusting behaviour Jamie before you even dare to call into question other peoples.
Sorry that i brought up Mizzy in this thread,i shouldent have.I in no way mean to take anything away from nems,brave decision to share her depression.Have to say i was so glad she did share,i understand nems better and she sounds like she is coping very well.Evrything i have sed to nems,is ment to let her know she is not on her own,i for one just understand her.I understand clinical depression.Gladens my heart that she has made some big decisions and turned her life around.That is very hard to do.Good on her.Linda and i are just fine.People have little bumps but get over them.
Well done on the sheer perseverance,and effert you have put in to batteling your depression Nems.That takes guts!
I am sure we will all forgive you for your bitchy unkind remarks Jamie, we are all aware of your issues and to be honest none of us ever really take you seriously and most of us just disregard anything you say anyway. We are all used to you by now. I am sure that Nems will appreciate the nice things you say even though you are probably the most insincere person who comes into JC.
It is good that you admit when you are wrong. It is just a shame that you cannot break out of your cycle of repeating the same behaviours over and over again.
Most of us see right through you. Pretend you give a crap about others, I am sure Nems will appreciate your token gesture. Keep up the good work.
