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@Wordsworth50 wrote:

@kent f OBE wrote:

Someone who makes your wishes…your curiosities…your dreams come true…..however you must remember he is only human
Someone who says you are beautiful even when you know you look awful
Someone, when you look at them you just feel inner warmth knowing they are there for you
Many many other things too…….however ladies we must remember we are hardly perfect ourselves

Wonder what an ideal woman is for a man?

How about:

Rules that real women should aspire to:

1. Always treat your man like a gentleman.
2. Respect him as a person, not just when he panders to your wishes.
3. Be caring and affectionate and take some interest in what he does and where he is.
4. Remember special days and tactfully remind him soon enough for him to enjoy them too.
5. Don’t put him through ‘tests’ when he has no idea he’s being tested.
6. Don’t keep things secret, tell him the things he needs to know if he’s to behave more like your ideal man.
7. Don’t sulk, accept his apologies and move on.
8. Tell him what it is about him that helps you to love him.
9 Don’t assume that dinner equals foreplay, or that it diminishes your femininity for you to contribute.
10. If you are going to break up with him then tell him, don’t act like a jerk until
it all falls apart messily.

All the above come naturally to many women. Real woman and real men exist. But I wonder how many who complain about the lack of the ideal other are themselves ideal?

Some say if you meet the ideal person, stay well away from them, because you’d only ruin them.

All I know is, it helps to choose wisely and be the kind of person that your ideal would want to be with.[/u][/quote

I like this,a man talking sense now thats a rarity.

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I dont know i was a morris marina man myself. Along with the metro turbo probably the worst car ever made in this country.

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and while your there try eating 3 dry cream crackers without water and swallowing them in under 2 mins :)

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buy some boite a allumettes and try it anc when your sober :)

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:lol:

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Yes a mark Iv will pick you up and take you to the doors. :lol:

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The empress ballroom, the dorchester hotel 8pm.

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that was the wine from the pre award ceremony party jen :)

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@jen_jen wrote:

@a certain sadness wrote:

Why do we bother to comment about people we couldnt care less about.Why the need to be seen, as the last word has no value in itself.

Good question…I can never decide whether it’s an itch that has to be scratched or a scab that has to be picked. :?

Hello jen, dont forget to collect your award :)

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@kent f OBE wrote:

@a certain sadness wrote:

Why do we bother to comment about people we couldnt care less about.Why the need to be seen, as the last word has no value in itself.

Dunno really certain….does it matter what is said? After all these people are not in our daily lives etc….if you come on the boards bitter and twisted and angry and just basically think the whole world is against you…then that reflects on the way you read the posts and subsequently post….and the ones that constantly do it…………IT SHOWS!!

I suppose it matters to some, im sure most of us would admit that a compliment from a stranger is welcome.For some the people in here are in their lives more than their friends in real life.

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