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20 February, 2017 at 7:18 pm #1022590
The right to die is a debate that could run forever BUT unless you have actually been in that position & lived through it it’s easy to make sweeping statements & even easier to quote documentation from the Net .
So you’re saying this wasn’t you, having a dig/baiting me ?
20 February, 2017 at 7:22 pm #1022591No i am not Arc.What im asking is would you kill yourself,how would you and could you go though with it?
Sorry somer I misunderstood but I stand by my earlier comment. A really good topic for debate.
As from my reply previously … then No I couldn’t end my own life.
- I am too chicken
- I believe when your numbers up it’s up
- I could NOT leave my loved ones with the trauma of trying to make sense of it all & wondering & possibly blaming themselves that their might of been something they could of done.
- I have strong spritual beliefs & if you take your own life before your time you are in limbo. (mumbo jumbo to some maybe but that’s my feeling on suicide).
20 February, 2017 at 7:28 pm #1022592The right to die is a debate that could run forever BUT unless you have actually been in that position & lived through it it’s easy to make sweeping statements & even easier to quote documentation from the Net .
So you’re saying this wasn’t you, having a dig/baiting me ?
YES I am !!
As I said it wasnt directed at anyone.
The topic of this thread is an awful place for anyone to be & the reality of it for the person & the people left behind is awful.
Now please don’t ruin somer’s thread with your nonsense.
20 February, 2017 at 7:35 pm #1022595The right to die is a debate that could run forever BUT unless you have actually been in that position & lived through it it’s easy to make sweeping statements & even easier to quote documentation from the Net .
So you’re saying this wasn’t you, having a dig/baiting me ?
YES I am !! As I said it wasnt directed at anyone. The topic of this thread is an awful place for anyone to be & the reality of it for the person & the people left behind is awful. Now please don’t ruin somer’s thread with your nonsense.
Wasn’t I the person who added the documentation from the net and make the “sweeping statements” (as you claim)?
If not me, who were you referring to?
20 February, 2017 at 7:41 pm #1022597The right to die is a debate that could run forever BUT unless you have actually been in that position & lived through it it’s easy to make sweeping statements & even easier to quote documentation from the Net .
So you’re saying this wasn’t you, having a dig/baiting me ?
YES I am !! As I said it wasnt directed at anyone. The topic of this thread is an awful place for anyone to be & the reality of it for the person & the people left behind is awful. Now please don’t ruin somer’s thread with your nonsense.
Wasn’t I the person who added the documentation from the net and make the “sweeping statements” (as you claim)? If not me, who were you referring to?
It was a comment meant in reply to the nature of the thread Blossom
It is easy makes statements & quote from the net when you aren’t in that situation. Dealing with the reality is a totally different matter!
If you want to take EVERY word I type personal to you then fill your boots …. you really aren’t that important so please dont flatter yourself.
Now please back off & stop trying to trash a damn good thread.
20 February, 2017 at 7:46 pm #1022598The right to die is a debate that could run forever BUT unless you have actually been in that position & lived through it it’s easy to make sweeping statements & even easier to quote documentation from the Net .
So you’re saying this wasn’t you, having a dig/baiting me ?
YES I am !! As I said it wasnt directed at anyone. The topic of this thread is an awful place for anyone to be & the reality of it for the person & the people left behind is awful. Now please don’t ruin somer’s thread with your nonsense.
Have you actually read my posts on this thread?
You really are baiting me aren’t you…I even stated that I’ve been through ‘terminally ill’ with both my parents and you have the nerve to type the above?
20 February, 2017 at 8:48 pm #1022600Interesting posts from gerry and arc. Blossom, you just to very firm conclusions far too quickly. I’ve often said that there’s something called giving the benefit of the doubt. Just because you were taken for a ride by someone unnamed and taken for a ride bigtime, doesn’t mean that everyone here is the same. We’re not all goody goody two-shoes, but nor are we all trolls and tricksters.
Interesting post Skep…very interesting.
I make points on my personal experience re “terminally ill”, and all you see is me jumping to conclusions regarding a person who posted who is obviously a baiter/wind up merchant?
Did you read my posts here and did you read Arc’s in reference to me ?
As for being taken for a ride by an un-named person, what can I say….
To claim the above you must know much more than what has ever been typed in main or been said by me … actually to claim the above, you must be the one taking the person for a ride …or somehow involved in it; it’s not something you can judge on snippets of information.
20 February, 2017 at 9:02 pm #1022601The right to die is a debate that could run forever BUT unless you have actually been in that position & lived through it it’s easy to make sweeping statements & even easier to quote documentation from the Net .
So you’re saying this wasn’t you, having a dig/baiting me ?
YES I am !! As I said it wasnt directed at anyone. The topic of this thread is an awful place for anyone to be & the reality of it for the person & the people left behind is awful. Now please don’t ruin somer’s thread with your nonsense.
Have you actually read my posts on this thread? You really are baiting me aren’t you…I even stated that I’ve been through ‘terminally ill’ with both my parents and you have the nerve to type the above?
I see you’ve placed a comment since I typed the above which means you’ve been on line and read my post, yet chose to ignore it …..which make you a (word of choice) ?
You have a very big mouth apparently, but you don’t fool me.
I recognise a baiter/wind up merchant when I come across one.
20 February, 2017 at 9:14 pm #1022602Just for you again Arc, as you seem to have missed them first time around.
Well if the suffering becomes too much and I no longer have control over my own life (as in there is no way out), why not?
I’ve witnessed terminally ill with both my parents …. and believe me, they were both very bad trips…..for them….and me.
I don’t have any children and no longer have my parents, so perhaps it would be easier for me to decide.
But then again, if I still had my parents and had children not sure it would matter; at the end of the day it’s my life and the end would be still the same, with it being terminal…it’s just a matter of weeks/months.
Pain relief is fine, but when you get to the point where morphine and sedatives interfere with your everyday life, I find it’s just a waiting room to death.
Watching someone slowly waste away is a horrible experience; you’re helpless and so are your loved ones.
It’s something I would not want to put anyone through.
Dignitas is a lengthy process, I presume, so one would have to be in the early stages of terminal to be able to decide on it.
I think the law should change; we should have the right to choose to die if we’re in a terminally ill condition and it should be done at home, possibly with a similar method that’s used by Dignitas.
I also think a law should be passed regarding life support on a machine.
I think we should be given the choice of this beforehand (leave something written), in case anything happens to us ( if we were no longer able to decide if and when it should happen).20 February, 2017 at 9:48 pm #1022603I thought it was an interesting debate especially Blossoms link from the Beeb that questions why doctors have the right to end life but otherwise it is illegal in the UK for others to assist (if I read it right). I think on an over 40’s forum most of us will have had personal experience of this issue and strong views about it. I also have personal experience of this issue and don’t believe, that in a spirituality sense, there is any beauty in death, no passing on to a greater place but as others have said there can be dignity and should be dignity, for both the person with the terminal illness and their relatives. Personally I also believe it should be made legal with the right legal safeguards in place, if that is the person with a terminal illness wish and they are mentally fit to take that decision.
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