Its not only simple its obvious, so why is it difficult to do? Why do people make everything complicated? Pride? Embarrassment? Fear of rejection?
There has been a recurring theme of mixed messages and misunderstandings in my life. And even when I did do what it says on the poster, I still managed to coc k things up! Mostly because what I thought was simple was complicated for the other person, and visa versa.
I still try and do all of those things, and sometimes that takes courage. But, we really do only have one life. Take a few risks!