Why?

Do people continue time and time again gripe and biatch worse than 13 year olds with raging hormones? is it you get to a certain time in life where ur hormones start doing an about turn and you revert back to those years ? As melody has said in one of her posts she is one of the younger posters and in the main makes alot more sense and certainly acts with more dignity than alot.
I havent read all of what has been going on but suffice to say 80% of it is not good reading. The pat chats thing is pathetic, i post on both forums and i have to say i was disappointed with a couple of comments from some on both sides, there was a degree of racial slurs from one or two, and that isnt what sunny was getting at btw, and although not acceptable the “you cant be racist bandwagon was well and truly jumped upon just … cos u can i guess. Then there is the royal wedding slurs, are people honestly that jealous of them, that they feel the need to judge them as an institution they dont agree with, rather than the human side that two people who have known each other and fallen in love and wish to seal this, as caths post originally intended? but no!! someone always has to get there oar in, as for the diana jokes, tasteless!, that man who some call a tw@t with out actually knowing them as a person just assume they are a tw@t because of their standing.. is no different in my opinion than judging someone by the colour of their skin.
On the positive side i’m glad some people came out and said what is the truth rather than what they chose to read depending on who made the post, that said im sure there is / was a degree of history in the replies but some where honest, even if it did or didnt play into their hands. Kent has posted this same post on another forum with no bother at all, so maybe sunny took it wrong and chocolat used it as a get back from a previous rant on pats, all as bad as each other in my opinion.
Thin i think you revel in stirring the shyte, some people take it and understand you others don’t and take it more to heart, neither is wrong it just points out how different we all are as individuals with different levels of tolerance and differing humour.
Ok i know people will pick holes in this and call me whatever they wanna call me, you are all entitled to your opinion as i am mine, but in all seriousness cant we learn to just get along better… after all we are all human beings even if we dont always act any better than an ape. banter and humour a degree of discussion, debate, cheeky humour is fine but this blatant handbag fighting between both sexes thats been going on really has reached a point where its tedious, nasty and dam well unecessary.

Apologies for the long post.

@(f)politics? wrote:

Do people continue time and time again gripe and biatch worse than 13 year olds with raging hormones? is it you get to a certain time in life where ur hormones start doing an about turn and you revert back to those years ? As melody has said in one of her posts she is one of the younger posters and in the main makes alot more sense and certainly acts with more dignity than alot.
I havent read all of what has been going on but suffice to say 80% of it is not good reading. The pat chats thing is pathetic, i post on both forums and i have to say i was disappointed with a couple of comments from some on both sides, there was a degree of racial slurs from one or two, and that isnt what sunny was getting at btw, and although not acceptable the “you cant be racist bandwagon was well and truly jumped upon just … cos u can i guess. Then there is the royal wedding slurs, are people honestly that jealous of them, that they feel the need to judge them as an institution they dont agree with, rather than the human side that two people who have known each other and fallen in love and wish to seal this, as caths post originally intended? but no!! someone always has to get there oar in, as for the diana jokes, tasteless!, that man who some call a tw@t with out actually knowing them as a person just assume they are a tw@t because of their standing.. is no different in my opinion than judging someone by the colour of their skin.
On the positive side i’m glad some people came out and said what is the truth rather than what they chose to read depending on who made the post, that said im sure there is / was a degree of history in the replies but some where honest, even if it did or didnt play into their hands. Kent has posted this same post on another forum with no bother at all, so maybe sunny took it wrong and chocolat used it as a get back from a previous rant on pats, all as bad as each other in my opinion.
Thin i think you revel in stirring the shyte, some people take it and understand you others don’t and take it more to heart, neither is wrong it just points out how different we all are as individuals with different levels of tolerance and differing humour.
Ok i know people will pick holes in this and call me whatever they wanna call me, you are all entitled to your opinion as i am mine, but in all seriousness cant we learn to just get along better… after all we are all human beings even if we dont always act any better than an ape. banter and humour a degree of discussion, debate, cheeky humour is fine but this blatant handbag fighting between both sexes thats been going on really has reached a point where its tedious, nasty and dam well unecessary.

Apologies for the long post.

Hmmm I thought this was over with? why try resurrect it?

Teapot

@(f)politics? wrote:

Do people continue time and time again gripe and biatch worse than 13 year olds with raging hormones? is it you get to a certain time in life where ur hormones start doing an about turn and you revert back to those years ? As melody has said in one of her posts she is one of the younger posters and in the main makes alot more sense and certainly acts with more dignity than alot.
I havent read all of what has been going on but suffice to say 80% of it is not good reading. The pat chats thing is pathetic, i post on both forums and i have to say i was disappointed with a couple of comments from some on both sides, there was a degree of racial slurs from one or two, and that isnt what sunny was getting at btw, and although not acceptable the “you cant be racist bandwagon was well and truly jumped upon just … cos u can i guess. Then there is the royal wedding slurs, are people honestly that jealous of them, that they feel the need to judge them as an institution they dont agree with, rather than the human side that two people who have known each other and fallen in love and wish to seal this, as caths post originally intended? but no!! someone always has to get there oar in, as for the diana jokes, tasteless!, that man who some call a tw@t with out actually knowing them as a person just assume they are a tw@t because of their standing.. is no different in my opinion than judging someone by the colour of their skin.
On the positive side i’m glad some people came out and said what is the truth rather than what they chose to read depending on who made the post, that said im sure there is / was a degree of history in the replies but some where honest, even if it did or didnt play into their hands. Kent has posted this same post on another forum with no bother at all, so maybe sunny took it wrong and chocolat used it as a get back from a previous rant on pats, all as bad as each other in my opinion.
Thin i think you revel in stirring the shyte, some people take it and understand you others don’t and take it more to heart, neither is wrong it just points out how different we all are as individuals with different levels of tolerance and differing humour.
Ok i know people will pick holes in this and call me whatever they wanna call me, you are all entitled to your opinion as i am mine, but in all seriousness cant we learn to just get along better… after all we are all human beings even if we dont always act any better than an ape. banter and humour a degree of discussion, debate, cheeky humour is fine but this blatant handbag fighting between both sexes thats been going on really has reached a point where its tedious, nasty and dam well unecessary.

Apologies for the long post.

poli i still love you x x x

Oh for heavens sake just let it drop…. I suggest you read what was said poli, you admit you have not read it all yet you condemn cosy for not reading your post fully (which he says he has btw) People came here from another site with the intention of causing trouble and being abusive and there were repercussions… its over… the end.

Teapot

@cosy.m wrote:

look,i know all about hotspotshield
and i know how to get around a banning
but i dont want to cheat ,so if im not in f3 chat
im leaving the boards,and defecting to pats chat
and i have it on good authority ,i wont be the only one
i cant take the condescending,patronising attitude off mo and ag anymore
but beleieve me i can get back anytime i want to
but do i want too?

to be honest cosy you would fit in well at pats :roll: