Whose in chat f3 now

@HostLD wrote:

@moonshadow wrote:

@trapper wrote:

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That must have been after Kazzie came in, and right away started on Moi and Gucci. Calling them dumb and dumber. Then LD came in to keep peace in the room because an argument got up. Because she had to say to kazzi look your wrong you were goading, she immediately picked on me and tore strips of me for attacking laine, so that kazzie would feel better. Of Corse kazzie and laine know LD will have there back ,you see there good chatters, so its ok for them to goad and wind other chatters up. Moi and Gucci are part of jc whether Kazzie likes it or not. Lets face it there’s an iggy if she doesn’t like them.if moi prattles on too much for me I iggy him. There are many ways to bully and abuse, Moi and Gucci don’t use them,they don’t bully and don’t abuse.They take a heliva lot though.

That’s only your version but then of course there’s the truth!

I suppose your going to say that kazzie didn’t wind up Gucci and moi and that laine doesn’t goad me.Yeah its the truth alright.

couldnt sleep. so having a cuppa then ill try again.

i have noticed something. and i guess as the saying goes…. better out than in. oh. thats wind isnt it, well never mind.

it appears that just my name being on here or in chat is now considered goading. even though i dont speak to said person, or allude anything toward said person. there is nothing i can do about that if in said persons head she sees people speaking to me in chat she considers my only thought is said person, that is said persons imagination and not fact surely?

does it mean that only said person is an “alcy” ( a word i have never used in chat) or is it because i am tea-total for the most part and only imbibe on rare special occasions? and there is in fact a type of jealousy that i can handle myself? without the need to keep calling others horrible names like who re and the like?

i like a giggle yeah course i do, but if someone would spend time in chat just watching me (and i dont mean said person) they would see i have not an ounce of malice in my chat words.

tonight was a good example.
dezbolten – used the “c” word to describe himself. i replied to that because it was in a public chatroom with – and i quote “but they’re useful dez youre not” the reply i got i considered uncalled for and very very personal. basically alluding that i was a prostitute and that even my father and brother had had me – did i react? no……. what’s the point, if its banter i’ll reply, to personal insult i refuse to. i put him quietly on ignore.

so, taking all this drivel i have written into consideration, would you say i am a mean and nasty person who picks at people? or is it more likely someone has decided they cannot even stand my name being seen and has to make up in their heads that i have done this that and the other?

going to finish my cup of tea now and then try sleeping again.

wonders who the victim is mechanic alludes to???

personally, i don’t consider myself a victim, im a survivor, and. i have never felt the need to change my name i am me, will always be me

what is chatterbox anyways? not heard of that one.

appears that just my name being on here or in chat is now considered goading. even though i dont speak to said person, or allude anything toward said person. there is nothing i can do about that if in said persons head she sees people speaking to me in chat she considers my only thought is said person, that is said persons imagination and not fact surely?

does it mean that only said person is an “alcy” ( a word i have never used in chat) or is it because i am tea-total for the most part and only imbibe on rare special occasions? and there is in fact a type of jealousy that i can handle myself? without the need to keep calling others horrible names like who re and the like?
On reading this knowing you are referring to me, or is it my imagination? What ever the case may be or who ever your referring to. Just in case it is me though. No im not jealous of you, in fact I feel rather sorry for you. Looking at things in a different way, I can see that perhaps your illness is far worse than my own. The grandiosity, the boasting, the paranoia that people are sitting in a chat room waiting to pounce as soon as your name comes in the room,. The Self important attitude. I dunno perhaps you yourself need help.

also while im at it I feel that chat needs a good culling,get rid of the deadwood,get shut of these chatters that continue to make peoples lives miseries
we all know who they are
no point culling the boards tho,for 1,theres not many of us
2,we don’t abuse
3,hardly any name changers.
so what do you think about that like?
its simple just rip up their i.ps and throw them in the bin where they belong
treat them like scum,ostracise them,send them into exile on a far flung distant chatroom
lets see if they will listen to their abusive shyte.