Where does the mindset come from?

…………. and thats why we have this thing called criminal trials Uber. ALL the evidence is looked at in EACH case. Its the likes of us who standardise things and the media.

All to often though the male in a rape case will try to use the defence “she was up for it/gagging for it/asking for it”

None of that or what you say can make the act of forcing yourself (not you before you start) upon a female and having intercourse right, or excusable.

Its a crime, but as I said on varying degrees.