What would you think

@r.O.T.T wrote:

true colours are easily proved
never the twain

my sentiments exactly.

It is all beyond me, a bit wierd… why would you be talking to someone who you like who obviously had that intent?

Did you not know they had that intent?

I just dont get it.

Why not ring them up and ask why they did it?

On thinking about this… in real life, if you tell somebody a secret, you can guarantee they WILL tell at least one other person.

I tell my hubby things, I admit, that people have asked me to keep confidential, but only because I know there is nobody of any concern related to the “things” that he would have an interest in telling.

Then again he is a blokey bloke and couldnt give a fuck, because half the time I say you remember I told you that so and so was doing this and he is like… no?? when??

So it goes in one ear, but never reaches the brain. A very good listener :wink:

@~Pebbles~ wrote:

@sharongooner wrote:

I tell my hubby things, I admit, that people have asked me to keep confidential, but only because I know there is nobody of any concern related to the “things” that he would have an interest in telling.

shaz i think all women are the same, no matter who it is who says “whatever you do, dont tell a soul…we HAVE to tell someone :lol: i always do :wink:

Yep, but those of us clued up only tell those who we know will at least just keep it to themselves and not share it with someone closer to whatever the situation is that could maybe cause damage.

There are obviously some idiots that do though.

it kills me to keep a secret, esp if its work related, i have one person at work who i trust that i spill everything to….if its not work related, i bore my bf with it, whether he wants to know or not :P i just feel so much better after ive told someone lol

@~Pebbles~ wrote:

it kills me to keep a secret, esp if its work related, i have one person at work who i trust that i spill everything to….if its not work related, i bore my bf with it, whether he wants to know or not :P i just feel so much better after ive told someone lol

Oh I have a biggy with a work collegue, and Ive only shared that one with Dave. It aint going anywhere lol!!

I also have the cloud of the official secrets act over me…. Ive two divorces and one debt that would go down nice with the tabloids, but I just tell my mates instead :wink:

we have a laugh at work when they come in… “Get Max Clifford on the phone” is what I shout when a goodun comes up…oops, wine dont half loosen my tongue :lol: