What would you say if..

No………….

I did in the past, say yes,,,,,,,,having been there,,,,,,,,,i’d definately say no if I had that time again.

And,,,,,,,,,,this time, I wouldn’t care if they used the bus shelter or anywhere else, so long as it wasn’t my house. Although things have improved greatly now, I never experienced so much dis-respect in my life, more I have to say, from the young lady in question than from my son, but either way, I set myself up for a real hard time there, so no, would be my answer in future. :wink:

@sir Actor wrote:

I’d say no too.
When I was a youth my parents would never let my girlfriend stay overnight.
I woiuldn’t have asked anyway.

It never used to stop us having sex in my room though.
Most of the time we’d be at it when there was no-one there.
But I do remember my mum knocking on my door once just as we were in the middle of something exciting.
That was a close call.
Overall though I never asked or made an issue about the girlfriend staying the night and I think my parents respected me for that.

Lol actor,,,,,,,,bet that ermmmmm cooled yr ardour,,,,so to speak lol

I remember I was engaged at the time. I was in bed with dreadful flu and my fiance came round to see me, he was allowed in my room but my god!! my mum was in n out like a bloody jack rabbit lol,,,,,,not that I had the energy or the inclination that night anyway, but she woulda made it impossible :lol: :lol: :lol:

I am in two minds, I only have boys, I will never have to worry about them coming home pregnant.

I was 17, I stayed over at my first boyfriends house, I was so naive I took pj’s :lol: I was really unsure of the situation regardless of me being excited. He was sexually experienced, I had not even snogged a lad. :?
Anyway, I wished I hadn’t because I felt that I had ended giving myself up to easily, plus I got pregnant on the first time of having sex. I was mortified and had to make adult decisions when I wasn’t really ready to.

I dont know why there is so much emphasise on sleeping together, what’s wrong with dating and having fun, getting to know eachothers likes and dislikes without hitting the sack.

I would not let my son bring a girl to stay over, no a bob jobbit would I, I don’t want that in my life, my son bonking in the next room… urgh no :-s :-…