What upset you today ?………

@kent f OBE wrote:

Talking to my friend this morning…her tears have left a knot in my stomach

So sorry kenty… I take it its the friend who lost her son, cannot imagine how bad that can be.. all you can do is listen I suppose… big hugs…. teapot

Someone who has a morbid fear of developing cancer telling me that she often wishes it was cancer as then she could do the things that she would really like to do and not feel selfish.

Sad that someone relatively young would feel that way.

Sad because I’ve lost too many friends too young to cancer and am currently watching another friend fight secondary cancer, and know how they would have loved to have her life.

Sad because I had to bite my lip, not sit in judgement and say what I really felt which was get a grip woman, look at what you’ve got, treasure it, then reach for the things that you still want with both hands without needing an excuse such as a critical illness to push you into doing it.

Upset me today……… The abuse that some chatters especially females get, off so called men and males in chat rooms……….

I have been absent for awhile… Since being back, I have seen one person get abused and stepped in, which I will always try and do. Support the person being abused and help them every chance that I get. Those people abusing (especially in this case) should remember that its an open “chat” forum and every body or anybody, can post as they please. That is what makes, Jc, the Uk, the Western world, a great place that we all choose to live, ie the lack of control and censorship……

Now indirectly I have discovered there are many forms of bullying taking place. All seem to be in the category of the seriously sad male, trying to put down, dominate or control a female chatter (I am not talking of the thin – Annette exchanges, I think we are all adult enough to realise, there is a simple solution to those). Rather more so, some one whom is an every day male chatter from the Capital of the Uk, who thinks it is okay, to threaten and stand over women with ultimatiums because, he does so in a different chat name or through a third party. Just a word to the wise, bullying is bullying, its wrong in every demension and aspect……. Apart from showing every exactly the coward that you really are….

Oh ant that person who was bullied, always here for you X X X

@andymcnabb wrote:

Upset me today……… The abuse that some chatters especially females get, off so called men and males in chat rooms……….

I have been absent for awhile… Since being back, I have seen one person get abused and stepped in, which I will always try and do. Support the person being abused and help them every chance that I get. Those people abusing (especially in this case) should remember that its an open “chat” forum and every body or anybody, can post as they please. That is what makes, Jc, the Uk, the Western world, a great place that we all choose to live, ie the lack of control and censorship……

Now indirectly I have discovered there are many forms of bullying taking place. All seem to be in the category of the seriously sad male, trying to put down, dominate or control a female chatter (I am not talking of the thin – Annette exchanges, I think we are all adult enough to realise, there is a simple solution to those). Rather more so, some one whom is an every day male chatter from the Capital of the Uk, who thinks it is okay, to threaten and stand over women with ultimatiums because, he does so in a different chat name or through a third party. Just a word to the wise, bullying is bullying, its wrong in every demension and aspect……. Apart from showing every exactly the coward that you really are….

Oh ant that person who was bullied, always here for you X X X

You probably don’t want to mention names, but who is the bully you’re referring to? Inbox me if you want.

Watching news24………riots in London. :(