Hi Ya Dawny. I had a similar thing to your neighbours antics happen to me a few years ago….I had a real shite of a neighbour…..I didnt give a damn how she treated me but when she started on my kids .THAT was different…One day the Ice cream man came around , and the cow of a neighbour went down to buy all the kids outside the house an Ice cream, all except mine,,I was so bloody mad. I stormed off down the stairs to buy my kids one and then came back and slapped her in the mouth….No one treats my kids like that, they were too small to understand what they had done wrong to not be included in the IN crowd anyway. I cannot understand How ppl can treat innocent kids that way…Needless to say SHE never did it again…. I`m not a violent person but NO_ONE hurts my kids feelings and gets away with it..Even now they are older I still wouldn`t see them hurt……………………………………Take Care Love….