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@soulie wrote:
a very loverly pm :)
that pissed u off
couldnt have been that loverly soulie
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
thing u posted that on the wrong thread hun@forumhostpb wrote:
I find it really difficult to express condolences anyway, particularly having just had to say goodbye face to face. Doing it on an internet message board for a stranger to me, was frankly more than I wanted to do. But there ya go huh?
i know exactly how you mean, i never know what to say, when my friends mum died, it was clare at the time who told me to go round to see him, it scared me to hell…. what do you say? looking back though, i am glad i did go round
yes geordiebird, silly me.. posted on the wrong thread :(
my puter deciding to go f’uck f’uck on me while i’m trying to copy cd’s :(
@kentlass19 wrote:
my puter deciding to go f’uck f’uck on me while i’m trying to copy cd’s :(
Is that the technical term ???????
Yeah Tommy – it sometimes seems that way doesn’t it? I’ve been sitting here for the last couple of hours thinking about things and it strikes me that we really don’t know too much about each other do we? I have been slagged off publicly and apparently stuff posted about me on another message board as well. But I have feelings – its just that i express them in a different way.
Problem is that I just can’t bring myself to express public grief for somebody that I don’t know. It feels dreadful to say that I don’t feel anything – but that is the truth. And yet when I did the Eulogy for another close friend and Brother (he was the Organist at my Lodge) it was all I could do not to cry. He was so brave. He had stomach cancer and knew he was dying but didn’t tell anybody because he didn’t want to upset them. He was my neighbour as well as my friend and Brother and yet not once did he ever even hint that he was dying. How brave and selfless can you get?
My next door but one neighbour’s wife died on Christmas Day – they were married for 45 years. He has to carry on with his life all alone now and I just feel terible for him. But he doesn’t force his loss on you, he just gets on with it and always has a smile on his face for his friends and neighbours. I think that THAT is brave as well.
I guess that the problem is that I am just not cut out for all these public displays of grief and loss – I was brought up to believe that grief should be private not public.
So as this is a ”what pi ssed you off today thread” – I am very sad and hurt that people should say what they have about me in a deeply personal and wounding way. Still that’s the way life is sometimes.
@Jooly wrote:
(((((((((((((((((((((((((PB ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
And you had me to contend with as well, I’m sorry xxx
Julie x
Its not a problem hun really. It was my pleasure to help you. xxxxx
@geoff wrote:
We’re pretty much mates PB, I think you know that … when I attack the people that run this place I think (and hope) you know I don’t include you, in fact I’m sure of that. I don’t think you deserved the bad press today, but the person above you does. You’re guilty of being interactive with users here… something the rest are not. So you are the point of call for peoples outcries… thats a fact of life. If you’re going to be interactive, you have to live with that. Sorry mate, thats life.
Its OK Geoff, and thank you for your kind words. Yes I guess you are right – I tend to be the public (or is that pubic???) face of JustChat so I suppose that it is only reasonable that I am the one they have a go at. Occasionally – just occasionally – it is a bit much to swallow in silence. Today was not a good day was it?
@geoff wrote:
No it wasn’t a good day PB… but the people that know you, know you’re not a sh!t … and anyone that buys me a Big Mac, is ok in my books … easy aren’t I… :wink:
Now tell us summat we don`t know. :wink:
awww but GG if you were in PB’s position I know you’d let me off with murder :wink: :D
btw i have already let my thoughts be known on the more serious matter…nuff saidI didn’t think you were hunni
lol at “for once” … cute :wink:
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