Hey guys, how you all doing x

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misterq, lindaclemenza7

i will give the real world a go and yeah just call me what ever you feel like

and a real friend is anyone who is not from sunderland

Sceptical Guy….

Sitting here and quiet for now, shh let’s knock on wood, stays that way. I have read your statement few times… so hope my approach to a response here is taking a shot anyway..

So so agree that a good friend “someone who doesn’t pretend everything is all right..”

Know for sure my 4 friends who know me personally and in which I have shared pain so deep and suffering,know that sometimes I have to do the walk so to speak not sharing to the outside world what deep suffering and pain that burrows deep. For them, cry in which can be stronger than Niagara Falls… tears good thing suppose, but pain is still buried deep anyway…then interesting, they cry too with own emotions and personal pains. We then sit down finding a way to move forward. Laughter we in my group provides some relief. Wake up..what we do. Suck in, move forward, or let it become unhealthy in our own mind which then can not be healthy results.

When or know some one else suffering, sharing and very deep in their soul as feel it, personally want to let them know (if I know them or not,) don’t ever feel you are alone..others at their hide it, we share it. It is healthy, a release of the burden heavy in one’s heart..some times I may laugh over situations share laughter as rather try to look at the brighter things we can take care of, rather than be stuck in one place, that makes us revert to the whys? What’s my purpose in life, who needs me, give up feel hopeless, lost and more alone. Make sense..
As we all have said here from time to time, trust not always easy..we have to try to begin some where…

Not sure you understood the point I was trying to make, linda.

“making them happy and making them happy with the coy and the stupid just another dumb lackey who puts out the one thing while saying the other while the real thing goes on and is no man’s brother”

The real thing is no man’s brother…sometimes people have to stand alone.

Sean O’Casey’s play, Juno and the Paycock has a yes-man in it who agrees with everything said. O’Casey stated that we have some of this in all of us. To say yes when really what is needed is to stand alone and say no.

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rubyred, lindaclemenza7

i am thinking of starting a new topic for justchat it is called –

What makes a good friend?