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28 July, 2017 at 2:07 pm #1062761

misterq

Yes…friends are a myriad of qualities that can be summed up on an individual basis and also on a group collective as well. Toleration is vital with friends………friends are not easy some times…or a lot of the time……….but that’s what makes them friends because one has taken the time to get to know them and focus on their strengths rather than their weaknesses and encourage the good.

That’s how they train whales. A whale likes to show what it can do….but it needs to be encouraged by focusing on the good rather than the bad. People and animals probably remember negative comments or attitudes far more than positive ones so it’s important to focus on what you see that’s good in a person and focus on that to help them grow.

I can be rude, i can be insulting, i can say a lot of things i don’t really mean at times and some times i wish i could turn back time and never have said some things but hey! We’re all where we are today…make it count….

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king_strongbow

28 July, 2017 at 2:15 pm #1062763

king_strongbow

Me too, usually if I have been it’s because there has been negativity around and I have had a drink so it brings out the worse in me, which is wrong, but in general I try to be good and forgive others who do the same. Nothing you can do anyway, no turning back time, move on and enjoy :)

misterq wrote:

I can be rude, i can be insulting, i can say a lot of things i don’t really mean at times and some times i wish i could turn back time and never have said some things but hey! We’re all where we are today…make it count….

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28 July, 2017 at 9:38 pm #1062853

JUSTNOTHING

ha yes defo a chemist, dont get stis people it is not difficult even herpes synplex/cold sores.

28 July, 2017 at 10:23 pm #1062856

rubyred

oh Linda.. my love. I am a horror.. I wont be your friend.. I am withHonesty being.

I trust NO fucker..

28 July, 2017 at 10:25 pm #1062858

rubyred

poor lamb. I’m a Scottish thing..only trusting cosy. I’m Scared..

wanker.

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lindaclemenza7

28 July, 2017 at 11:06 pm #1062862

lindaclemenza7

RubyRed
I truly do understand trust issues. Really..especially when you do not know that some one long.. scottish thing no matter where you are from, I do and can relate with your feelings..

Now by the way where is that big guy my O.K.(Orson) he tired still fom not finding you. Tell him I am not allowing any excuses for his delay here.. and geez guess he will have to bring me along to you for those Bloody Mary’s, no celery, and fish dinner. So I better spend the night with him first, so he will let you know…
Miss ya R.R.

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rubyred

29 July, 2017 at 12:55 am #1062868

rubyred

its nothing to do with trust Linda.. bloody mary is sod all to do with Celery.. Okay fragmented Haddock..

I’m taking an expression..

I have taken nearly £200 for Tesco food..

Edinburgh Festival..

29 July, 2017 at 1:04 am #1062870

rubyred

I am sorry.. all the time I sat here ..what a bloody laugh with cosy.. It is very funny.. Frances died.. my only living relative.. I talked with cosy.. was a great laugh. I will be down soon xx

29 July, 2017 at 1:15 am #1062872

rubyred

god.. I am one of those kinda chicks.. I smile a Lot.. I go on holiday with my children. they are 30and 35.. I am in a wheelchair. Because my legs do not work anymore.. I’m can walk 10 steps.. and I can sing.. and dance the blues.

lover man, oh where can ye be..

cosy is my wee pal.. ” got the moon above me, but I got NO man to love me”..

I love the Blues..

/wanker.

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lindaclemenza7

29 July, 2017 at 1:50 am #1062874

lindaclemenza7

Ruby

Can relate to a small degree. Have not been on holiday in 12 years. As live with a male partner we are strickly good friends. That is all, share expenses, move in different directions, daughter together. Lonely well feel it myself often, but move forward and try to laugh with life adventure which has often many challenges..

Body failing parts so what, smiles and laughter, shared experiences, dinner just as good. Wheel chair pushed my dad around last year of life, so have experience actually with 2 at a time. My mother near end as well. Ask me how I did that with 2 chairs, by myself often. Did. And 3 of us always laughed and managed…

My holiday, going solo with single group. No one allows me otherwise independently. Afraid I will get lost..

Jazz, blues like certain types. Thinking off hand, um Kenny G..love yanni…

Sorry for your recent loss as well….

Dancing, like to snuggle type, but have often sat tapping feet for that right some one to come along and ask…but then I sneak away afraid too. Trust, ahh that word again.

Now O.K. better make us both laugh when I come on my holiday. (Orson)

Oh..and men love when you sit in a chair..hee hee. Who has better control you think? We know how to do things right…
Now earlier for me here almost 9pm. Have to shower, pulling double shift tonight, work

Oh and forgot to mention a recent/mistake accident if you will. My reflex was slow, did not expect it, almost knocked out..now looking at 6/8 weeks of garbage. Yep..sucks..all my teeth are being surgically removed soon.. need to wait for measurements and things. 4 screws in my jaw, shoot nervous.. and love food. Not over weight, but shoot soft foods that long not appealing.

You be well..hugs to you and my o.k. tell him to be good quiz night…ha ha…..
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