"What is chemistry?"

I disagree.

Personally, I like to define chemistry as “mutual flirting” between two people. The ONLY times when you have chemistry is when you’re actively flirting with a girl and she is ALSO flirting back. If neither person is flirting, then there won’t be any chemistry. If only one person is flirting, there won’t be any chemistry either.

Here’s the bottom line: In order to have chemistry, BOTH PARTIES MUST BE FLIRTING WITH EACH OTHER.

There’s no way around it. You can’t raise the chemistry if a girl is not flirting back. You can’t raise the chemistry if YOU are not flirting with a girl. You MUST be flirting actively with a girl and allowing her to flirt back with you before you can develop ANY chemistry with her.

A common mistake that guys make is to “expect” the chemistry to “come naturally”. They go on a date and just act like a “friend” because they are nervous and don’t want to “screw anything up”. The result is an awkward energy that dominates the atmosphere of the whole evening.

Listen…if you want a girl to like you, then you better take the lead and start flirting with her RIGHT NOW. Your m chemistry with a woman will NOT raise until YOU ARE actively flirting with her, and without chemistry you CANNOT have a relationship.