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och they be picked up tomorrow.
I cant find my glasses.. i use them rarely as i suffer from migraine ! just to rest my eyes..
im on a hunt for SPEX !!
makes a wee change eh? hehe.
Ill give ye some spex.. you know me, I’d try anything once!
Why carnt my eldest daughter see what a low life he is :evil: :evil:
She is treating me and her dad like somethink she stepted in the past 6ish months have been hell to be honest im at my wits end i dont no what to do any more
I walked in from work to her shouting at me as soon as i got though the door because i didnt reply to her text she sent me at work staright away i replyed about 5 mins later thats all ……….and she has just gone for me like a wild amimul
Im so f00ked off i want to say stuff and i no i carnt ……………. She as threatend to leave and move in with this to sser once to offtern iv told her to pack up and get out
She as now gone to her mates I just dont no where iv gone wrong i really dont @sunny wrote:
Why carnt my eldest daughter see what a low life he is :evil: :evil:
She is treating me and her dad like somethink she stepted in the past 6ish months have been hell to be honest im at my wits end i dont no what to do any more
I walked in from work to her shouting at me as soon as i got though the door because i didnt reply to her text she sent me at work staright away i replyed about 5 mins later thats all ……….and she has just gone for me like a wild amimul
Im so f00ked off i want to say stuff and i no i carnt ……………. She as threatend to leave and move in with this to sser once to offtern iv told her to pack up and get out
She as now gone to her mates I just dont no where iv gone wrong i really dont I doubt very much you’ve done anything wrong. I dont have daughters so cant advise, but I can assure you I was that girl you describe and I was horrid to both my mum and dad at times. I look back and I cringe with embarrasement at times.
Just be there for her… point out you DONT like what is going on, but if she needs you she knows where you are. Try not to stress, I know hun its easier said than done.
I know she loves you to bits and when things get to much for her it will be your arms she runs into and cries like a baby and will appreciate how lucky she is to have such a cool, understanding, loving mum xx@sunny wrote:
Why carnt my eldest daughter see what a low life he is :evil: :evil:
She is treating me and her dad like somethink she stepted in the past 6ish months have been hell to be honest im at my wits end i dont no what to do any more
I walked in from work to her shouting at me as soon as i got though the door because i didnt reply to her text she sent me at work staright away i replyed about 5 mins later thats all ……….and she has just gone for me like a wild amimul
Im so f00ked off i want to say stuff and i no i carnt ……………. She as threatend to leave and move in with this to sser once to offtern iv told her to pack up and get out
She as now gone to her mates I just dont no where iv gone wrong i really dont u havnt done anythin wrong suns. she/s 17 an thinks she knows it all. let her move in with him!after a couple of weeks waiting on him..after being used to you running ur blood to water fa her.she will realise how lucky she is.
on the other hand you could tek him to one side.an tell him nicely that if he dont back off u will ave his bol.lox on toast. :-Pats hubs as said last night he will kill him iv never known him to take a disslike to any 1 he is way to laid back for it but you no the score with her iv told you and my f00king MSN aint working again :evil:
she is buying his fags evry couple of days he wont even try to work she as a lil sat job and spends all her money on him :evil:
And i no for a fact it wont belong before she gives colloage up such a waste she as brains iv only ever dreamed off
Shazza love ty i dunno maybe its me i was never a bad kid dont get me wrong i was a f00ker always in to stuff but i never spoke to me mom like she does me i havent spoke to her in months properly i try i ask how she is how her day at work is only time i find any think out is when i hear her talking to him :evil:
The most she talks to me is via text message Has for her dad because he didnt hold back last night he takes the lad home every night at 10 he is at our house when we get in from work we feed him every night and last niht she wouldnt go when hubs said at 10 so he went mentle he said the lazy bast rd can get the bus from now on infront of him as well
I feel for my lil un she at trampoling tonight thank god but other night when she was going at me the lil un who is 14 came over huged me and said mom ignore her i love ya
……She is 17 and i dont think she as ever said she loves me as a baby yes but since about 8 i couldnt hug her touch her she just hates me she DOESNT hate u. shes just pushing her luck. do more wiv kel an let her do her own thing. nxt thing ye know she will be moanin shes missin out. mr pats was same wiv ours.ran em about…..got used as a taki service.still does! an was left to me to lay down the law. bite yer tongue babes. an get ur bloody msn sorted!
(gonna send you a PM).
You may think this sounds wierd, but even though communication is hard face to face, I reckon if I was her and read your last few posts it would really make me think what I was doing to you and everybody else.
Im trying to think of a way you could maybe, subtly get her to read this page.
Sometimes some things cant be said face to face, but I reckon her reading that, without the chance to interrupt or get caught in the middle of a slangiing match where nowt gets resolved could be just what she (and you) needs xx
OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO don’t let her read this page…it will just make her angry!
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