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12 May, 2006 at 8:14 am #3921
Look at this.
http://uk.news.yahoo.com/12052006/140/girl-12-become-youngest-mum.html
And her “mother” is proud of her!! FFS. :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:12 May, 2006 at 8:37 am #215152I have 2 daughters and i mentioned to my hubby their dad, what if they were to get pregnant in their teens? I mean they get younger now a days, he said that he would be so hurt devestated but they are his babies and he will do whatever they want but it doesnt mean im pleased. I agreed with him. But i do think more SEX ED needs to be taught but by parents aswell as teachers. Its scarey and i would hate my 2 to waste their lives at 12!!!!! FGS at 12 i hadnt even kissed a boy or seen a willy let alone got pregnant :shock:
Its a shame because she wont even know what shes missed out on. And i do wonder if the dad is taking part in this? Kids need moms and dads equally! Unless 1 decides to not be around then more respect to the parent with the kids x12 May, 2006 at 10:31 am #215153The Mother is Actually Proud….!!!!!
Im sorry, I might not be all for Abortions but if my CHILD, and lets not forget this is a CHILD having a baby. I sorry but I certainly would not be proud, I certainly wouldnt be happy. Im having wondering how and why a CHILD feels the need to have sex..?? As Becky said at 11. Id never even seen a willy either, when we got taught about your periods coming is was all giggley and embarsing. My daughter is comin up for 8 in July so if this was her in 3yrs time I would be taking her to get the problem erased,….. the only opition I think is the right path.
I mean better Sex Education… was said to be the problem.. at times I feel children know far too much well ahead of their times. what are we to teach our kids from 8 onwards..?? at 11 I certainly feel is still to young to know aboot sex… yes they need to know that their bodies are changin and developing. But Sex…?? why..?? I think is this date and age we’re too liberal at times with sex and our children are growin up alot sooner than we did.
I don’t think young girls and boys these days actually respect theirselves….
12 May, 2006 at 11:03 am #215154I couldnt have put it better myself Mary. Well said.xxx
12 May, 2006 at 12:55 pm #215155Well when i was at high school there was a lad in my class and he was tall and broad not fat, we were 11 at the time and he was put into a “special” class for kids with concentration problems. It turned out he had raped 2 girls aged 2 and 3 when he was 8 years old. I didnt think much of it i was 11 and didnt really understand too much but i was at an innocent age and didnt think twice about it but he was a mean lad and would put fear into kids. He even towered out history teacher and she was scared of him. If i found out now a days my kids were in a class with kids like that i would be angry and soon put a stop to it. I have heard since school he went out with a girl i worked with and he used to “hurt” her during there passion and she grew scared of him. Its a scarey thought how young kids are and doing adult things!
12 May, 2006 at 1:48 pm #215156@rubyred wrote:
bloody hell becky thats just too scary,,whatever happened to him,?
Well i saw him not so long back but he looks like a mental patient now but he had a Farmfoods uniform badge on. I didnt speak to him because i am more scared now than i was then probably because i know what a perv is now. But thing is he was in main stream schooling he should of been in a special school or a young offenders unit of some kind!
12 May, 2006 at 2:04 pm #215157this is a really hard one to be judge and jury on…………..i have 2 beautiful daughters and if nothing else they have always had my time…….i agree with all the sentiments expressed so far not least the one ‘what was an 11 year old doing out at a party and getting drunk’?
I beleive that for this girl to have been doing that is a serious lack of parental guidance?? LETS BLAME THE PARENTS!!!!!!!!
hold on though, wat if the mum was a teenage mother , perhaps a victim of abuse?? what if the parents had (and i kinda cringe to use this ) no parenting skills??? Did anyone pick that mother up at the time of immorality or what ever we would like to call it ??
whats, ifs , musts, and maybe’s are all over this case………i never cease to feel a sense of frustration at what is happening in this world……..no hang on we are talking about england, a so called ‘civilised society’ hmmmm so how did this family fall through the net i wonder???? LETS BLAME THE ERMMMMMMM…..SOCIAL SERVICES MAYBE…….GOVERNMENT MAYBE…….ERMMMMM I am sure we could sit here and blame and be disgusted………however,
what i sense from most of you is the sense of shock…….and if i am not mistaken to a certain degree ‘there but for the grace of god go I’
We will never know how or why this girl was in this situation to have sex with a 15 year old boy ………but needless to say i endorse everything all of you have said so far…..what a waste of a childs life…..a child!!!. childhood can never be regained once it is lost..(although my kids would probably disagree adn tell you i am in at least my 25 th childhood lol) and it saddens me …….and what saddens me more is the fact that this family have decided to go so public with it!! this lends a certain degree of sensationalism to it….not that she should be hidden away …………I am glad there are enough of you out there that feel saddened and indignant about this situation as i do my self……my frustration lies in the what can we do about it???
well guys cherish this moment cos iam now at the point where words fail me about this situation and that dont happen very often !!
xxxx
12 May, 2006 at 3:44 pm #215158@tommy-toxen wrote:
I am too disgusted to post my opinion of what should happen to her parents & the sick scumbag who would have sex with an 11 year old baby girl.
Thats it a baby having a baby?!?!?!?! Makes no sense
12 May, 2006 at 3:59 pm #215159@tommy-toxen wrote:
I am too disgusted to post my opinion of what should happen to her parents & the sick scumbag who would have sex with an 11 year old baby girl.
I agree Tommy – more results from our wishy washy liberal society .
I would imagine the family are like the “Clampetts” Inter-breeding and whatever – no doubt they will still be at it in another 100 years time . Sterilize the ot of them now – save the country a fortune on Social Security and handouts !!!!
12 May, 2006 at 4:06 pm #215160“The mum-to-be, who smokes up to 20 cigarettes a day according to the newspaper, said she hoped the baby would be a boy.”
Is this wee girls mother for real. :?: :?: I wonder when this 11 yr old grows up and reads this all back how proud she will feel of HER mother.Seems the message the mother is sending is that its ok to smoke, drink, have sex and get pregnant at 11 years of age and dont worry because your mothers will be proud.
My parents would have hammered me had i even dared to curse at 11 let alone smoke or drink. That would now be called child abuse but the thought of it put any notion of smoking or anything else at a young age out of me.
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