I don’t have rules, I just use common sense.
Why would a younger man want to get ‘gooey eyed’ over me when he can have a female his own age or younger?
If they’re dating an older woman, there’s always some sort of issue behind the choice (more than a 10 yr age gap), either that, or they’re doing it just for sex.
I would actually feel rather annoyed by it.
My limits would be (if I were looking, which I’m not), not more than 5 yrs younger (and that’s pushing it, given the fact I’ve never dated anyone who’s more than 2 yrs younger than myself), and not more than 5/6 yrs older.
I could stretch the latter to 10 …. but he would have to reach parts of me, his slightly younger counterparts have yet to reach :lol: :wink: