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@kent f OBE wrote:
Without sounding too patronising we do think differently when we are younger….however he sounds a sensitive chap just being upset by the break up…loads would just move on I guess…see it as an opportunity to sew their seeds elsewhere :lol:
I think when we get over the initial hurt and remember all the good times and the reason why we loved/liked that person in the first place….our anger mellows…..sometimes even that isn’t enough to mend friendships however….guess that’s the reason we can’t really advice anyone but can only tell of our experiences….every relationship is differentYeah thanks, think I’ll tell him this if it comes up in convo again – I daren’t mention her. He had a g/f before, but he broke it up (not for this flippin ex tho!) he realised he wasn’t in love with her, and she was with him, so now he knows how she felt – so, I suppose he has learn’t, unfortunately, the lessons’ most of us do :(
Soz, Lucy for going off the jokes – eeeeeeks, oooooops xxx
ps. edited twice cos I put the brackets in the wrong place :lol:
lol dont be sorry Anc,
1. Threads never stick to their topic
2. There is a Joke thread, but i chose to post it here
3. Kenty had good point of the question TOO SOON as in relationships, as it is one questions that everyone at one point in their lives will ask themselfs or think about others.
@irish_lucy wrote:
lol dont be sorry Anc,
1. Threads never stick to their topic
2. There is a Joke thread, but i chose to post it here
3. Kenty had good point of the question TOO SOON as in relationships, as it is one questions that everyone at one point in their lives will ask themselfs or think about others.
thanks, and yeah! :D from me, but :( for my son and anyone else who has had their heart broken mwa mwa xxx
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.
Marcus T Cicero
@pepsi wrote:
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.
Marcus T Cicero
hmmmmm can apply to my son’s situation I suppose. Depends on how nasty it got I suspect, of which I don’t know! :?
Good quote tho! :D
I think it all depends on the depth of feelings prior to break up Kenty, if you are in love with someone and they call it off and you move onto the next then i dont think you are going into that new relationship with an emotional blank page, so yes it could be rebound and certainly wouldn’t be right for the person who is filling that gap. Whereas if the break up was an unpassionate split down to the fact there is no love left, then you are already emotionally blank paged so i dont think there’s a too soon.
After a death…, now, if you have lost someone that was the love of your life, you may never lose that and to an extent you will forever be on the rebound, but it is something you have to put in a box to bring out when you are alone and not let it encroach on any future relationship negatively, so in this case, “too soon” would only be when you can’t put them in the box and compare too much with future possible partners.I think the feeling is very similar but different as well both counts. However, if someone has died, you can’t ‘see’ them again. If someone has dumped you, you can, and it would hurt seeing them with someone else. Not sure what is worse tbh.
@(f)politics? wrote:
I think it all depends on the depth of feelings prior to break up Kenty, if you are in love with someone and they call it off and you move onto the next then i dont think you are going into that new relationship with an emotional blank page, so yes it could be rebound and certainly wouldn’t be right for the person who is filling that gap. Whereas if the break up was an unpassionate split down to the fact there is no love left, then you are already emotionally blank paged so i dont think there’s a too soon.
After a death…, now, if you have lost someone that was the love of your life, you may never lose that and to an extent you will forever be on the rebound, but it is something you have to put in a box to bring out when you are alone and not let it encroach on any future relationship negatively, so in this case, “too soon” would only be when you can’t put them in the box and compare too much with future possible partners.*books an appointment with Dr. Pollers asap* :lol:
there will never be an answer to too soon that will fit everyone
just a couple of thoughts that may or may not be right
kenty – perhaps your mother realised she could never replace the person she loved and married and never tried to do so but took pleasure from the time and the children they had together
Anc – young love is always much more raw at such a young age and therefore the results can hurt more at the end of a romance though moving on to the next is not so difficult – so for your son it may not take too long
It’s far too soon for Concordia threads.
I’ve pencilled in November 18th 2013 for the really sick stuff, but that could be a bit early for the moral crusaders on here.
And I WON’T won’t be mentioning the outlandish size of the Japanese Emperor’s head……………….deal with it.
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