oh come on Lucy, there was no badness intended in my reply either. ok i made the fatal error of not following the rules. but show me a thread that starts and ends on a said subject. It was a sat night ffs.. I have saw much worse. Instead of bringing it to folks attentions,it would have been better ignored. maybe if i called him “eye candy” i would not have recieved such abuse :) Was just being honest as a particualar moment in time,, i cannot always fit my over active brain in with the jigsaws of life. could have been worse,, cosy might have chucked a traffic cone at him . hehe. x