Velvet, i remember my girls last school PTA meeting before she left primary. As i walked in the teacher. sitting back in his chair with his feet on the desk. held up his hand and said ” i will discuss nothing but the 11 plus”. I sat in silence until he started to look at me and then said ” u will discuss any aspect of my daughters education that i choose to discuss unless u wish me to record our conversation and play it back for the board of governers”. I then took a little office hand recorder out of my bag ( i was just home from work!) and placed it on the desk.
We then discussed my daughters entire last year in the school :D