The English Male and Women?

Hmmm maybe I have (or haven’t evolved) take that either or.

Both my kids are from one man. I’ve never drank so much that “fancy a s*** is the height of eloquence”

But!

I’m not a feminist either, I like to look after a man, as long as I don’t get taken for granted, I’ve never nagged a man, or moaned, I’ve cooked cleaned brought up my children and worked.

An old saying, you can put sex into a relationship, but not a relationship into just sex.

As for Englishmen treating women badly, no, I don’t think they do, (intentionally).

The lines between the sexes has become so blurred now, men are afraid to ask a woman for a date for fear of being made fun of in public, or a drink thrown in their face, non feminists don’t get asked for dates either. (all tarred with same brush?) I do think that misogyny has slightly faded but misandysm has heightened.

I’m no prude but I wouldn’t dream of making fun of a mans size, sexual or otherwise, and I wouldn’t expect a real man to call me fat ugly or frigid, purely because I decline his advances

The “scattering” of children I fear forebodes genetic problems for the future. I agree totally that it appears nowadays that relationships are consumable. throwaway, no one works at a relationship anymore. so people breed move on, breed again move on again, ad infinitum.

Eventually  Scarily) we will have a world of kids who have no idea who their siblings are, who then go on to breed and move on. it doesn’t bear thinking about with regards to the genetic throwbacks

I Think its become a tit for tat country, if I cant get exactly my own way I will be abusive call you names and move on. that’s how it is nowadays both men and women of this country see each other as just a consumable  commodity, pieces of meat to be picked up and then move on .

and…. its why I prefer to stay single.

Scep, no one is given a road map of how a woman’s body works (from a pleasure point of view).

I’ve counselled couples and the woman says “he doesn’t please me” (won’t use the blatant words here). my first question was always. “have you shown him what does”? We’re all responsible for our own bodies, we know how they work, what is nice or not so nice, and unless you’ve explored yourself how on earth can you guide someone?

Both sexes have responsibilities in that area. We make our own rules, as to how, what, who ,when.

I do however think that what has been lost (or Americanised) is that a sexual encounter is nowadays preferred to a sexual relationship.

You can only get to know a particular woman’s body if you stick around long enough or if she lets you!

Ok we’ve always been “stiff upper lip” particularly when communicating desire, apart from the obvious.  (one night stands whether drunken or not)

and I guess some shy away from oral sex because they haven’t a clue what to do (and that’s both sexes not just men) which brings us full circle,  we don’t get a map of how a female’s body works, the same as unless you ask a man to show you what he likes how does a woman know?

Oral sex, is that like phone sex? 

Tell you what annoys the hell out of women who refuse to sit down when you stand up for them or give you a look because you’ve opened a door for her… we aren’t saying you’re weak ffs it’s called being a gent don’t be so fucking butch

All depends where you’re asking them to sit I suppose